Kathy Wakile – This Blog is for You – plus Let’s Chat

Kathy Wakile – This Blog is for You – your friend NMD

Poor Kathy Wakile.  She can never catch a break. She’s the good one.  The one everyone should appreciate.  She is so open and giving and it’s such a thankless job. Her only problem is that she’s too nice and doesn’t get the appreciation she deserves.  She’s so nice – gosh darn it – that she doesn’t even want to speak up and tell people to appreciate her.  She’d rather mope and whine and let Rosie tell people to appreciate her.

Rosie is so lucky to have Kathy in her life.  It’s clear that Kathy and Richie have supported Rosie as she struggled to find her place in a traditional italian family being about as untraditional as you could get.  They accepted Rosie for who she was – didn’t hide her lesbianess from their children.  Nope.  It just never came up.  Mostly because Rosie hadn’t had a date in decades – so there was no reason to bring it up.

Rosie is so lucky to have a sister like Kathy.  Without Kathy, Rosie wouldn’t be a star on the Real Housewives of New Jersey.  Rosie wouldn’t get to go on all those great trips, and get so much screen time.  If Kathy wasn’t such a wallflower – no one would ask Rosie to film those talking heads.  Rosie is so lucky to have a sister like Kathy.

Teresa is so lucky to have a cousin like Kathy.  Without Kathy, Teresa wouldn’t be a star on the Real Housewives of New Jersey.  Kathy sneaking on the show behind Teresa’s back made Teresa a star, and she should thank Kathy for that.

Melissa is lucky to have a cousin-in-law like Kathy.  Actually – she pretty much is – because Kathy was the only one that would join the show so that Melissa would have someone to film with.

Richie is lucky to have a wife like Kathy.

———   Break in thought because I fell asleep I was so bored even trying to think about Kathy

So to wrap it up – we should all appreciate Kathy more.  The End.


On Watch What Happens Live tonight, Andy has run out of New Jersey housewives who give a shit – so he’s got to host Danielle Staub.  We can all hope that she brings it for live TV.  She’s cray cray – so I have my fingers crossed.  Maybe she’ll put him on blast for firing her ass when he kept a whole lotta other cray cray housewives on the various show.  Not that I’d want her back – but I’d love to see her take Andy down.

Let’s Chat!

About Veena (NMD)

Just a housewife ... who loves this place .... and loves to write ... You can reach me through this email: nomoredrama8@gmail.com. Lynn's Place is in tribute to Housewives blogger Lynn Hudson, who passed away in August of 2012.
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297 Responses to Kathy Wakile – This Blog is for You – plus Let’s Chat

  1. Powell says:

    Hey everyone. Just reading the rest of all the comments from earlier. I LOL that a few of you are so fed up w/Bravo/NJ that you’re not watching tonight. Boy oh boy how a bunch of crazy folks have messed up our tv. 🙂

  2. Kat From Ohio says:

    i am so excited about danielle. i LOVED her. i didn’t like her of course, but she brought the crazy and she turned out to be right on the money about other “woman” (remember how she always pronounced it that way?!). hoping she brings it.

  3. MelTheHound says:

    If they are going to keep this current crew, NMD, I would Love to see Danielle come back just for the purpose of putting all her old gal pals, in blast. Make it a real happy fambly type reunion. Bring Grannytel back too… WooHooooo.. What fun that would be 😀

  4. Powell says:

    MTH have you been watching Teen Mom, Preg at 16 & Maci’s show? I hadn’t watched in a long time & did some catching up today. I can’t believe how girl after girl believes their teen sex partner really loves them & will step up to the plate? This show has been on for many yrs & it astonishes me that girls are still so naive.

    • MelTheHound says:

      I didn’t realize that the shows had started back up but, yes, it really is amazing(ly stupid) what these people think is going to happen. I thought in this day and age, most moms had driven the fairy tale princess stories from their daughter’s heads or never put them there to begin with. I remain convinced, more than ever, especially in season 23 of this crap, these girls get themselves pregnant in order to be on MTV. I will be watching Teem Mom3 to see if I can figure out who the next one to make a porno will be,.,,,

      • Powell says:

        MTH I’m not going to disagree w/you about these girls getting on the show cuz these days people are doing all kinds of things to get on reality tv as we see grown ass people doing on NJ. Yes #3 is on. Earlier I was watching last season which I didn’t watch much, maybe 1 epi. So far I don’t see a girl that will go Farrah’s route but its early. 🙂

    • lulu says:

      Powell the H.S I went to in all of my classes atleast one girl was pregnant or already had a baby. A friend of mine had 3 children before she turned 18 her partner was in his late 20’s and her parents approved. They are still married and doing well. Another had her first when she was 16. The irony almost 20 years later I had my first while theirs are in college. The father her husband started a landscaping business at 18 and they are still happily married. Another friend 1st at 16 she’s a pediatrician and the father her husband is an orthopedist. It does work out but they had full support from their families. It just depends.

      • MelTheHound says:

        Then you have the ones like my nephew’s ex wife who is a complete piece of pig shit.

        • lulu says:

          Yeah unfortunately. Another friend single mom a hairstylist on welfare she works full time at haircuttery. That’s an industry unless your in the high end, small family owned your not making a living wage.

  5. Cusi77 says:

    I apologize if this was already posted, It is new for me and wanted to share…

  6. TexasTart says:

    Oooooh * rubbing hands together* I’d love to see Danielle on an Andy take down!

    Triva: Danielle was the first ever guest on WWHL.

    • Cusi77 says:

      Please, Please, Gawsh… I will nevah going to bash JZ evah, evah again… let Danielle make Andy have it… Amen!

    • chismosa says:

      Texas nothing would make me happier but she has to keep her “options” open with bravo/ NBC co.’s — you never know they may give her stunning daughter a show on one of their other networks.

      So IMO she won’t ruffle Andy’s feathers as we wish she would. 😦
      Sad sad

  7. Cusi77 says:

    I am not left behind today… Yay!!

  8. plainviewsue says:

    OMG, that was fantastic NMD!!!!!

    If it wasn’t for Rosie, Kathie & her ape of a husband wouldn’t be on this show anymore.

    Someone did a blog on Kathy to show all the ways she has screwed Teresa. It was excellent.

    I believe Kathy has been jealous of Teresa, way before RHONJ even came along. I believe IMO that Tre’s stories about how Rich would letch over her and say inappropriate things to her. We see him do that with Melissa, and nobody bats an eye over it. Not even little Joey.

    Kathy wants to come off as the goody two shoes, but she is so far from it. How did she sit there and let Rosie cry next to the horse??? That’s your sister. Maybe cos you know you are the reason for so much of her hurt. And now Rosie is covering your ass and not telling the truth. Now we heard that their dad was closer to Rosie. I believe Teresa when she said that Rosie was not accepted by Kathy or Richie in the beginning.

  9. MelTheHound says:

    Grow some phuckin balls Joey and confront these people yourself

  10. MelTheHound says:

    Tarzan is in her face 😀

  11. VV says:

    RHONJ Night!

    “Why your chuckalina full of sparkles?”
    ~ Milania

  12. VV says:

    Wakile scene = Zzzz Zzzz

  13. MelTheHound says:

    Don’t tell me we’re going to have to watch someone touch these two

  14. MelTheHound says:

    Did Teresa get lip injections?

  15. VV says:

    Joey did not mean a word of that toast to Joe Giu.

  16. VV says:

    Yes, Chukie, BitterClown let’s talk about “other families” The Manzo secrets and problems are motto be talked about and Bravo is protecting us.

  17. VV says:

    Here we go with the third person talk again.

  18. VV says:

    Is Rosie talking about Caroline?

  19. VV says:

    STFU Joey! OMG! He’s throwing his parents under the bus.

  20. It would be hard for anyone to let go Joe – dumbass

  21. VV says:

    Of course Bravo has to play “funny” music for the Wakile’s and Rosie because they failed at the first step… and in Bravo producers it was so funny haha NOT! Scene manipulation.

  22. MelTheHound says:

    The crapfest continues. Are you watching the look on Autotune’s face as everyone Else does this?

  23. MelTheHound says:

    I hope she snaps her neck on the wire.

  24. VV says:

    They replayed the audio of Teresa saying she wanted Melissa doing this. Joey asked Teresa to go with her. Another Bravo manipulation.

  25. VV says:

    And your pea size brain Joey tells you it’s all Teresa’s fault.

  26. VV says:


  27. MelTheHound says:

    As I said, Joey… Grow some balls.

  28. VV says:

    No embarrassing scenes for BitterClown. Bravo protects her. We didn’t even see her refuse.

  29. MelTheHound says:

    Make sure you piss on it Joey.

  30. VV says:

    Rehearsed scene between Joey and Meho. We got it. You both hate Teresa.

  31. VV says:


    • Sasha says:

      I’m sure he has no problem with her having ex boyfriends. Why wouldn’t a spouse be upset with a group of people constantly attacking their wife.

      • VV says:

        Like MTH said a couple of times above, Joey needs to confront the people doing the talking. He’s too coward to do it. It’s easier to blame his sister and it is also what Meho wants.

      • Jill...no not THAT Jill says:

        Sasha-I agree-he should be upset and he should start talking to the people who are attacking his wife. This Jan chick was good friends with Melissa and now she is running around trashing her-why? Why doesn’t Joe ask her? And same thing with Penny-Melissa never asked the right questions when she talked to them.

  32. VV says:

    Yes, it was deliberate. So, Caro is talking about the Whorgas only on that Talking Head.

  33. AZGirl says:

    Well….I have a choice. The violence of Boardwalk Empire or NJ. I think I will stick with Boardwalk Empire. At least that show is “real”.

  34. MelTheHound says:

    You mean your autotune isn’t there.

  35. VV says:

    15 more minutes of this show, Thank God!

  36. Jill...no not THAT Jill says:

    Hello…back from glamping…I came home and unpacked and wanted to check the blog and I dropped my friggen iPad and the screen is shattered so I will not be posting much in the next few days as I try to get if fixed..so annoyed at myself!!’
    I did see that Exit was here-if you are reading and you are in the FB group give me a shout-I’m always on the group page over there!!!!

    • Buttercream says:

      Who was the Glamping? Have fun in the woods? Sing songs around the camp fire? 🙂 Sorry about your dropping your ipad – that stinks! 😦

    • Orson says:

      You broke your iPad? My deepest condolences.

    • TexasTart says:

      You’re back! Sorry about the iPad 😦

    • Laineylainey says:

      That sucks, Jnntjill!!! So what will u use to check in with me. I mean, us. You have a pc? Phone? I hope you can get your iPad fixed real quick-like. Glad you had fun while glamping. Need some deets! (I know, that is so 2012)

      • Jill...no not THAT Jill says:

        I have a place close by that does screen replacement-I just have to decide if I want to spend the money right now…I’m so annoyed with my own carelessness!!! I can use my computer to check in-its old and slow but it will get the job done…and I can use my phone but it is too hard to comment on that!!
        Glamping was wonderful-my sister has a camper about 2 hrs away and me and my 3 sisters and my BFF went for the weekend…it was glorious!! No kids no husbands no bulls*it for a whole weekend!! We didn’t exactty “rough it” but we did have to make a fire and cook out side on the grill-which I never do at home!! We sat around and drank beer and laughed our asses off….carefree 40 something’s… I can’t wait to go again!!!!

        • VV says:

          Go to Apple itself and see how much they charge.

          • Jill...no not THAT Jill says:

            I already know they charge more than the place I’m going….sadly this is not my first time having screen issues-my iPhone screen was smashed to smithereens a few month ago!’n

        • TexasTart says:

          Sounds like a good time! Nice that your husbands and kids will relinquish you for a few days! 🙂

      • chismosa says:

        Lainey LOL!

        you always have me laughing ……

        Ashy belongs to ME! 🚷🚷

    • Exit4 says:

      I will Jill!

    • chismosa says:

      Jill I don’t know how I’ll survive. But I’ll try
      Good luck 😫😫😫😭😭😪😪😪

  37. VV says:

    Will this be considered “stirring the pot” on BitterClowns part or Does she genuinely wants to end this feud?

  38. VV says:

    Eggmitt what, Joey!!!!!

  39. VV says:

    Kathy and that smirk!

  40. Jill...no not THAT Jill says:

    Melissa knows Teresa didn’t tell Penny anything-SHE KNOWS…but she can’t eggmit it b/c then the show will be over!!!!

  41. VV says:

    That is because IT WAS STAGED BY BRAVO YOU MORON!!!

  42. VV says:

    Teresa does not have to eggmitt to something that she didn’t do. Melissa is SUCH A MANIPULATOR!!!!!!! Omg! Joey deserves her.

  43. VV says:


    • Laineylainey says:

      What if Tre threw a glass at the wall? Or Joe Guidice? UPROAR, I tell ya. UP IN ARMS! A fox and a hound playing together!

  44. VV says:

    Love Italian style is calling your husband a f*cking idiot.

  45. MelTheHound says:

    Oh Bitch please. You Both LOVE it.

  46. MelTheHound says:

    I get the feeling there is going to be a part 4 of this dumbass trip.

  47. Jill...no not THAT Jill says:

    At least Melissa eggmitted that her husband is an idiot…

    • VV says:

      That is Love Italian Style for you. I don’t know what chapter of her book though.

    • Buttercream says:

      eggmitted – lol .. her and Gretchen should go on WWHL with Andy and read off cue cards of all the words they can’t pronounce and the drinking game would be Andy laughing …

  48. Dang it, the live stream stuck at the Joey blowing up!!

  49. VV says:

    Why again is Teresa supposed to help Joey? Say wha…

  50. VV says:


  51. VV says:

    Why is Teresa supposed to help Joey?

    Melissa does not want peace. She cannot hide it her horsey face gives it away…

  52. MelTheHound says:

    Here it goes again….

    • VV says:

      Why did Bravo even bother to film a new season. They could have just played last season again. Same people, same plot, same everything…

  53. Maybe no one else’s wife is being talked about because no other wives…….

    Thank Goodness Caroline summed it up for me!!

  54. VV says:

    Love Italian Style is telling your husband on National TV: “You lose control like a psycho”

  55. That meeting with Penny that they showed in the preview took place 2 weeks BEFORE the trip. I call BS on Bravo! Take a look at this blog


    If you follow the links to the photo (number 7 in the series) (please don’t post it here – I think this is the organization that sued SH for copyright infringment) you can see Penny wearing the same outfit they showed in the clip.

  56. VV says:

    @JohnnyTheGrk: Funny, I had a meeting before this trip.

    Original Message:

  57. VV says:

    @PDKhair: That tweet was over a year old !!! Holy crap from last September !!!

    Original Message:

  58. And now it becomes crystal clear why Teresa was so livid last week, and wrote that blog. She is done with Bravo. I wonder if she just kept quiet during the reunion to screw them.

    • lulu says:

      Great blog nmd!!! Why oh why does bravo think we are stupid???? I’m just surprised with all the social media that they would bother twisting timeline. All too sad and pathetic.

    • TexasTart says:

      Yes, it does seem clear..like I said before she didn’t turn that blog into Bravo on purpose and is distancing herself. That would be a trip if they couldn’t get a rise out of her at the reunion…rumor has it her attorney was present for the reunion.

      • Laineylainey says:

        I hear a death knell 🔔for her role on this show. You show up to a reunion with a law-yuh? And it’s buh-bye. Adrienne’s law-yuh merely wrote a letter…and buh-bye Adrienne.

  59. VV says:

    @AArater: @FauxRealityE @melissagorga I can’t be bought or paid off

    Original Message:

    • VV says:

      Click on the link from Faux

      • All a bunch of bottom feeders. He can’t be bought off because he wants to be paid for his story.

        • VV says:

          Oh, I totally agree but for those that want proof and for the curious that want to know if these rumors are true. Here’s the first one to tell his side of the story.

        • Cusi77 says:

          All I could see was a desperate opportunist… What he can say about a teenager? She was active? So what? We all are new with every breath we take.

          She is now married, has 3 kids and wants to be famous! Big deal! She did not mentioned him in her book where she did not mention that her parents were divorcing. No biggie.

          This guy wants some 3 minutes of fame. No matter what, he did something wrong and pay his debt to society. If Melissa was a stripper, nobody cares! She is a good wife today! The guy needs attention, so the Salahis!!!

  60. lulu says:

    One day I will be able to watch an entire episode of nj without interruption…….sigh!!!!!

    Today was exhausting!!!!! The governor had a wonderful birthday!!! Unfortunately he’s wide awake happily playing with his new toys.

  61. chismosa says:

    Hi can someone here tell me the poll ???? at 11? I can’t put the channel on amongst the 3 TVs going in my house at that time ?

    Pretty please ? Cherry on top 🍦🍧🎂🍰

    Thank you ANYONE 🙂

  62. TexasTart says:

    In other news… Serena Williams won the womens US Open!

  63. Amalfi says:

    Part of me cannot believe we missed Danielle. That was some seriously messed up crazy bitch.

    Yet she is still more appealing that the rest of the current Jersey girls. Danielle hasnt gotten better… the rest of them are vomitrocious.

  64. Amalfi says:

    Also, I kind of love Melissa’s dumb romper. Kind of like I love Gretchen’s autotuned song. I need therapy and medication, but if loving that mess is wrong (and I am only talking about the romper and that jumble of autotuned badness that hurts *my ears* so good not the trashbag women they are attached to), then I don’t wanna be right.

    God help me.

  65. VV says:

    I don’t get the tweet since the cast was wearing different clothing on tonight’s episode. Jac really thinks viewers are stupid.

    @JacLaurita: Yup…it happened AGAIN in Arizona…(lol)… http://t.co/dvAj5rIzv7

    Original Message:

    • chismosa says:

      Vv off topic //////
      I started — STARTED watching the Bethenny intro thing-y — and it was like an interview super close up of her to the camera telling her “being raised by wolves” story 😭😭😭
      There were SO MANY things I wanted to write down to tell you about that I had to shut it off and save it for a day that I would have energy to watch.

      But why– WHY pray tell- does she need this intro thing ? If she was SO successful in her trial last year ?
      Things that definitely make me go hmmmmm…….

      So tomorrow will watch a woman in her 40s “twerk” with not so great guests for her 1st show.
      Eye ROLlllllllllllllllll
      Blah blah screech blah screech

  66. VV says:

    @JacLaurita: The show usually follows what or who has the most drama.Makes for better TV. Everyone has some drama in their lives though.We can all relate

    Original Message:

  67. Rebecca says:

    “@TheFauxMilaniaG: while these clowns are doing “peace” exercises in a desert, i’m setting 852 home alone style house traps for when they’re back #rhonj”

  68. VV says:

    @Andy: She’s baaaaaaack! OMG what will @daniellestaub say when she returns to #wwhl live at 11!?!? http://t.co/K4Bi1uYWNL

    Original Message:

  69. I think Penny is going after Teresa now:

    Penny Drossos ‏@PDKhair 16m
    Ill cover you and take shit for you but once u fuck me over its your turn .. I have nothing to hide truth will come out keep watching …

    • VV says:

      Yes, something happened sometime ago way before this season started. I think Sue might know the reason. Plainviewsue if around, what happened between Tre and PDK?

      • I thought Tree called her a stalker mid-season. So does Penny hate both Mel and Tree now? I can’t keep track.

        • VV says:

          Not sure. All that stuff is on Twitter and hard to track. Penny is writing a blog tonight that will be posted on Faux.

          I’ll take a peak at FW site. They might have an old blog about it.

      • plainviewsue says:

        I really am not clear about this tweet. She will writing a blog that will go on Faux’s web site. Some people think she’s talking Melissa. Wish I knew. But like NMD said, the meeting between Penny, Joe & Melissa happened before the Arizona trip.

        • VV says:

          Yes, like NMD stated above. Penny got her feelings hurt because she heard Teresa allegedly called her a stalker. They haven’t communicated since filming ended.
          Somebody asked Penny if she was referring about Tre, Jan or Kim on the tweet above. Penny replied “I love Jan she’s a good friend of mine for years” so, that leaves Kim and Tre…

  70. VV says:

    Danielle has gained weight and too much Botox. She seems in good spirits.

  71. Jill...no not THAT Jill says:

    Danielle needs to leave her face alone-she is botoxed and pulled and plumped….I’m obsessed with her eyebrows….they are high and the don’t move-at all!!

  72. MelTheHound says:

    Poll question.. Favorite HW singing performance. 4 to choose from… Danielle and Luanne are among them, don’t remember the other two…

  73. TexasTart says:

    WWHL poll: Favorite clubhouse performance? Danielle and her girlfriend, Kenya, Kim or Luann.
    KEnya gone with the wind fabulous baby! (My vote)

  74. Jill...no not THAT Jill says:

    So far this WWHL was not worth waiting up for…BORING!

  75. TexasTart says:

    I enjoyed th NJ clips put to opera music.

  76. VV says:

    Zzz Zzz Zzzz

  77. VV says:

    Oh, please Andy can you suck up more to the Manzos? Glad Danielle didn’t buy Caroline’s apology.

  78. VV says:

    OMG!!! Andy’s face….. PRICELESS!

  79. Cusi77 says:

    Someone here in this board mentioned that she met Danielle (or saw her) in a local store, and said that Danielle was very beautiful… I see her in long hair does not look beautiful or young.

    Haa! Danielle thinks that Jax should put her wine away!!!! Haa!

    • MelTheHound says:

      Haa! Danielle thinks that Jax should put her wine away!!!!
      Next to putting the Marco sisters on blast, that had to be the best line of them all… 😆

  80. TexasTart says:

    So Danielle is there because she is currently filming a reality show….onviously it’s not been picked up yet, or she would have mentioned a channel or title.

  81. VV says:

    Danielle sees the show and the cast as many do including me.

  82. VV says:

    She called Andy on being fired!

  83. She certainly confirmed all the rumors about Melissa’s actions behind the scenes S2. Interesting that she likes Teresa now.

    • VV says:

      I never doubted that Melissa was a Snake from the minute I first saw her on the show.

    • Rebecca says:

      She and Teresa were ok. Then the Manzos and Lauritas has problems with Danielle and Teresa followed along. When Teresa figured out that Danielle was getting info from Melissa, she gave up the fight.

      Now Danielle sees Teresa in the same situation she was in during the first two seasons. They may never be friends again, but they probably have respect for each other for what they’ve endured in this show.

      • Laineylainey says:

        Teresa treated Danielle like crap. I believe Bravo encouraged her/rewarded her for that deplorable bully behavior. She wasn’t exactly very evolved in Season 1. Danielle is the bigger person for forgiving Tre. If indeed she has forgiven her. I always thought D loved JacDaniels. Like I mean, I think she was attracted to her and either did know her or wanted to know her in the biblical sense. Jac knew that D had a crush on her and used that to string her along.

  84. MelTheHound says:

    Did Danielle just confirm that MeGo wanted to trash Teresa on the show? That she forwarded emails to the producers to help MeGo get on the show? Is that what I just heard?

  85. MelTheHound says:

    I hate to admit it because I cannot stand Andy or his show but this is more interesting than the RHONJ show tonight.

  86. Laineylainey says:

    I’m curious about something, do you think that Mel believes that her dad videotaping her while she sang into a hairbrush was unique to her and a sign of her present superstardom? Does she not realize that every kid since the beginning of time performed at home, singing into a hairbrush, played air guitar, etc. this was before video cameras but my siblings and I would pretend to be THE ARCHIE’S. “sugar, ahhh, honey, honey…” I used a pie pan as my tambourine. We also pretended to be THE BEATLES. “You say goodbye…and I say hello…hello! Hello!” My daughter and her friends pretended to be spice girls (video evidence) our son & his friends pretended to be HANSON “mmmmbop!” So I guess that means we are all supposed to be pop stars. I mean, c’mon it’s our destiny!!

  87. VV says:

    Al and Caroline called Penny and the people that tweeted about Melissa nasty names tonight. Could this be the reason?

  88. chismosa says:

    VV Caroline’s words were dubbed when she was saying to Al that the men told their truths and that “Teresa and Melissa” whatever /// didn’t. Total dub I just checked it

    Bravo fooling us again. Sounded like it could have come from a TH

  89. VV says:

    The fact that Danielle thought Caroline’s was sorry for calling Danielle a clown was not sincere. The fact that Danielle called Jac on her drinking problem. The fact that Danielle called Melissa on trying to destroy Tre. It’s all Teresa’s fault. I don’t know how but you watch. It all will be Teresa’s fault somehow because haters are gonna hate and in their minds It’s always Teresa’s fault.

  90. chismosa says:

    I am loving Kathy’s new hair color i must say

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