Let’s Chat – Real Housewives of Atlanta and Shahs

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216 Responses to Let’s Chat – Real Housewives of Atlanta and Shahs

  1. TexasTart says:

    Oh, I am surprised there is a chat blog post, thanks…

    Goooood evening folks!

  2. lulu says:

    Party at NMD’s!!!!!! 😉

    Nancy its http://www.sho.com go over to the episode list then MoS message board.

    Tell me when you are getting the book I will to and read it!

  3. California35 says:

    Have fun everyone, I don’t really watch this. I may catch parts of it on a rerun.

    Have a good night 🙂

  4. Nancy says:

    I can’t believe Todd went through with this wedding/

  5. Powell says:

    Chatty chat chat chat.

  6. Nancy says:

    This man is not getting this.

  7. Powell says:

    Apollo doesn’t know how to apologize. Phadera Apollo doesn’t hardly think he dud anything wrong. Text his buddies Phadera.

    • Nancy says:

      I’m sure glad he’s not my husband.

      • Nancy says:

        I have male friends and George has some female friends and we do talk to them
        however that’s not the history that he had with Kenya.

        • Powell says:

          Right. Even he said “You brought her into the group.” I think A really did was to have sex w/K.

    • djprincessc says:

      He really doesn’t think he did anything wrong. Reminds me of a guy I dated, I was upset bc a girl kept leaving comments on his facebook, and his response was “she does that to all the girls I date, she likes to get a reaction outta them.” I tried to explain how I thought it was disrespectful that she kept doing this and why he allowed her too. He just didn’t get what the big deal was, and I just couldn’t understand how a guy could let a girl who he knows likes him, mess with girls he was talking too or dating. Basically he liked the attention, thats all it came down too and that was pretty much the end of us. Of course Apollo is a million times worse since he is married, but he knows Kenya was definitely into him and he allowed it to upset his wife.

      He’s definitely checked out of the marriage and thinks hes too hott.

      • Powell says:

        Yeah that guy sounds just like Apollo. Because Apollo is nice looking he thinks he can get away w/treating women that way. Kenya was wrong. But Apollo has done nothing but encourage Kenya

        • LaineyLainey says:

          I think Apollo was disrespectful to say on camera to Phae-Phae “remember when you would bend over in the bathroom and I would hump you?” That’s the mother of your children, Asshat!! Low rent, low rent, low rent…

  8. TexasTart says:

    Okay, I’m settled in for TV now. Wish they would start HW an hour later. Don’t guess I missed much?

    • LaineyLainey says:

      We just got back from dinner. Starting with Atlanta…

      • LaineyLainey says:

        I am appalled at Nene talking that crap about Phae Phae’s high school exploits. How small of you, Nene. You’re going back to high school?

  9. Powell says:

    TexasTart & PrincessP I really hope George is no where near N.Y. this season.

    • TexasTart says:

      He should go to Miami and look up Hoanna! hehe

      I hope he’s not filmed in NY because I can’t imagine anyone who wants that..Ewwwwww.

    • Are you kidding??? That’s her Daddy!! She obviously thinks there is nothing inappropriate about him. I wonder if Ramona said she wouldn’t film with him????

  10. cusi77 says:

    I am with Mama Joyce… Todd has to sign the prenup… She is the music industry in which she can affect many other people if she does not have a prenup. She is self made. She is a good daughter not talking to her mother disrespectfully… Very unusual these days.

    • Nancy says:

      I’m on the fence with that one Cusi.

    • TexasTart says:

      Kandi said in her blog that Todd has always agreed to sign a prenup. I assumed it was not necessary to be signed unless the wedding license is in hand. So I assume Mama is over-reacting? But we have not heard Todd tell her that. Puzzling.

      • Ladebra says:

        The producers haven’t shown us, sigh, because it doesn’t suit them. I seem to recall Todd saying he didn’t have a problem, but could have been somewhere other than the show.

    • Powell says:

      Of course she has to sign a pre-nup. Kandi has said in the past that if she got married she would definitely have a pre-nup. Just as she was stupid enough to not sign a contract w/Kim she better not be/or have been stupid & not have a pre-nup.

  11. TexasTart says:

    Put on your shades! Cynthia arrived! 😎

  12. Nancy says:


  13. Powell says:

    Kenya needs to stop throwing shade at Phadera. Something is not right w/ Ks figure. She doesn’t wear the proper bra. Her boobs aren’t supported & something is wrong w/her butt. She & P have problems w/their boobs & bras.

  14. Powell says:

    Noelle looks like her mom & dad. She’s very pretty.

  15. Nancy says:

    This poor kid.

  16. TexasTart says:

    This is cute … Noelle and her Dad.

  17. TexasTart says:

    “Full on” 🙄 Pick another word,Leon!

    • LaineyLainey says:

      Yeah, I would jump on that if my hubs used that word re our little girl. Just a bad choice of words.

  18. Powell says:

    I like Cynthia’s bob.

  19. Nancy says:

    I wonder why that marriage went south?

    • cusi77 says:

      They were never married… You are talking about Leon and Cynthia, right?

      • Powell says:

        Oh I thought Nancy meant Porsha & Kordell. Right Cynthia & Leon were never married. I think the 1st season she said he asked & they were engaged.

    • Powell says:

      I think they both had different expectations. He wanted a 50s housewife. She thought that’s what she wanted but really didn’t.

  20. Powell says:

    I’m glad Leon is a dad that’s constantly in the picture.

  21. Powell says:

    Oh lordy Porsha. I did the same thing.

  22. Nancy says:

    She’s so pathological.

  23. Powell says:

    See look at how Kenya’s boobs look in this dress.

  24. Nancy says:

    Now that was cute.

  25. cusi77 says:

    I find hard to believe that Kenya has never found mr. right…

  26. cusi77 says:

    Here we go!

  27. cusi77 says:

    Kandi looks beautiful in this last TH… more natural color hair is nice in her!

  28. Powell says:

    Oh no. This is not going to be good. Big time drama!!!!!

  29. Powell says:

    Aunts. They look like mama Joyce. Damn Joyce.

  30. TexasTart says:

    Heah it comes……

  31. Nancy says:


  32. TexasTart says:

    Kandi. Girl. Is there mental illness in Mama Joyce side of the family?

  33. Powell says:

    Joyce doesn’t like Todd. She doesn’t like Kandi’s friend. Is she trying to start these rumors for Kandi to break up w/Todd.

  34. Nancy says:

    Poor Kandi.

  35. TexasTart says:

    Really, it’s a family thing … NO It’s Kandi’s thing!

    And these bitches…Aunts and Mama take thisout on Kandi inpl public at her dress shopping. Grrr. I think my blood pressure needs checked, lol.

  36. Powell says:

    From that comment it seems to me that Joyce wants to make sure Kandi only provides for her. This sounds like a money thing to me. Everything Joyce has said about Todd& now Carmen has to do w/Kandi ‘s possessions.

    • Nancy says:


      • cusi77 says:

        Now I can see your point of view… It is about money… Dang!

        • Powell says:

          Mmmm hmmm.

        • Nancy says:

          That’s not what I meant by that. It would be hard for me to respect my father if he
          was treating one of my close friends the way Kandi’s mother was treating her friend.

          • Nancy says:

            I’m talking about my post to you upthread not this last one about money.

          • Powell says:

            Me too. She & Carmen have been friends for yrs. It doesn’t seem like Kandi was aware of Joyce having any kind of negative feelings towards Carmen. Kandi’s been successful for a long time. Now she feels Carmen has always taken Kandi’s “leftovers”? No. It’s all about money. Remember last season when Kandi told Todd Joyce wanted to live in the other house & Todd said he loved Joyce but he didn’t think it would be a good idea for her to live w/them after they got married. Kandi said she saw his point but she will always take care of her mom & one day she will live w/them. I bet Joyce saw that & didn’t like him from then on because Todd was stopping the plans Joyce had. Joyce found the houses. I bet that’s when it changed. Ah ha!! Sherlock. 🙂

    • LaineyLainey says:

      Mmmm Hmmmm.

  37. lillybee says:

    Should Kandi give mama Joyce, her cast off hair?

  38. Powell says:

    That’s the thing. Kandi doesn’t deal w/her mom. She brushes things under the rug. There’s a way to be respectful to your mom & draw the line.

  39. TexasTart says:

    Ooooh, Kandi yelling at Kenya in the promo. Just imagine the emotional control Kandi exercises not to yell at her mother like that!

    • Powell says:

      I’m glad someone is yelling at Kenya.

    • Beckygrey says:

      Good Morning Everyone,
      I hope everyone on the East coast fair well in our mini storm Dion. I watched Kandi on WWHL and I felt so badly for her. She is a very sensitive young lady. She is very respectful, loyal and caring. The nastiness of Twitter is not her wheelhouse and conflict isn’t her forte. She said that her mother supported her as a child and just because she makes more money than her mom, doesn’t mean she becomes the mom and MamaJ becomes the daughter. I think what we all forget is that Kandi had Reilly at a young age. When Kandi was making money and on the road, MamaJ was taking care of her daughter.
      My mother was very much like MamaJ and to an extend I dealt with my mother the same way. Upon meeting my bf, he hugged her and she said “At least he doesn’t smell like wet dog!”. Then it came a time that she was so toxic that I told her that until she could be respectful to me she would not have access to me. She came around eventually and we had numerous years of happiness/ peacefulness before she passed. I drove 400 miles 3 times a week to spend time with her when she was in a nursing facility, because I wanted, not felt obligated to spend time with her.
      So I have confidences in Kandi, not so much in Joyce.

  40. Powell says:

    Revenge is on. HA!! Claudia is not dead and she’s back!! 🙂

  41. cusi77 says:

    Up until November 20, 2013 Kandi Burrus is not married…

    Kandi Burruss On Cancellation Of Kandi Factory; Wedding Spinoff!


    Nov 20, 2013 – Kandi Burruss Talks Cancellation Of The Kandi Factory And Getting A … about following in NeNe Leakes’ footsteps and getting married on TV.

    • Powell says:

      I’m sorry for her that KF was cancelled but I didn’t like it. Another wedding? Because of Joyce’s objection unfortunately I might have to watch it. :/

    • LaineyLainey says:

      I just can’t believe how those aunts ganged up on Kandi’s friend and then on Kandi herself..we don’t want you to marry. They were like an evil trio.

      • ladebra says:

        I thought it sounded disingenuous. Maybe like production prompted them to say it as part of their spin? Cause the aunts said it si quietly, and Kandi was surprised like where in the world did this come from?

        Oh my, Kandi and Fantasia singing Christmas carols, those ladies can sing!! I really loved watching them together. Of course Joyce is her mother, will always be her mother, and Kandi loves her. I just feel sorry for Kandi and Todd, and Carmen, when Joyce gets on the crazy train.

  42. Powell says:

    5Is anyone watching “The Great American Christmas Light Fight” tomorrow night? That seems like fun. Neighbors saying they have the best lights in the neighborhood.

    • Powell says:

      Lying has got them both in trouble. How many times did Kenya lie when the ladies repeated what she said at the reunion? Then when they caught her in the lie she said “Oh yeah I did say that.” And at the reunion she implied that Apollo tested inappropriately to her & that P& A need to get an Aids test. I just hope her BF is who he says he is. Many guys in Africa say they have money & they are scammers.

    • Powell says:

      She better go on to a sperm bank & have a baby like her aunt said.

  43. Sasha says:

    I hope someone tied Joyce to a chair to make her watch her bad behavior. Kandi has been so mislead. This is past respecting your mother. She is being controlled and manipulated and it looks like it runs in the family. I like the way Joyce’s sister spun the story around to place the blame on Kandi’s friend. I knew they were going to be trouble the minute they strolled into the building.

    Someone should tell Joyce that she is the biggest opportunist in this situation. Where does she work and who’s house is she living in????

    • Nancy says:

      The house that Kandi bought her. What a snake.

      • Powell says:

        Kandi gave her her previous house. That place is not anything to sneeze at either. It has a guest house that was Kandi’s music studio. The house has to be nothing less than 3,000 sq ft. Why doesn’t Joyce be honest w/Kandi and say she’s scared that Kandi will no longer provide for her? Kandi’s biz mgr told her that’s how he felt & Kandi smoothed that over.

      • LaineyLainey says:

        Kandi’s cast off house?

    • From the descriptions of the way she acts, I hope someone tied her to a chair and smacked her. Sounds typical of someone on these shows, who is not a HoWife getting way too much attention for their own good by the cameras. Then again, I don’t watch so what do I know?

    • LaineyLainey says:

      Great comment, Sasha.

  44. Nancy says:

    chismona…GG is hysterical tonight.

  45. Sasha says:

    Correction = whose house is she living in??

  46. TexasTart says:

    • Powell says:

      Tell us how it is TexasTart. I rarely watch that anymore.

      • TexasTart says:

        My sister called right when it started, so I had to record it. I did see Kandi being very frustrated explaining something and starting to cry. I’ll fill you in later, Powell. Or anyone else is welcome to do so.

  47. Powell says:

    It’s freezing outside after the snow/sleet we had all day. I hear a bird chirping outside my window. Very weird.

  48. I haven’t watched Atlanta since they went to Africa, so I haven’t seen the scenes with Kandi and her mom. I would like to say in her Mom’s defense that we don’t know what Joyce has seen as far as Kandi’s love life over the years. The fiance that died had a lot of kids from different women and Kandi didn’t sign a contract with Kim and lost out on around $80,000. I don’t know Kandi’s history with her Mom….maybe her mom knows what Kandi is like when she gets a boyfriend. Just putting it out there for discussion. I have NO IDEA if anything I have said is valid…..

  49. LaineyLainey says:

    Now I’m on to Shahs…loving the Asa scene with her mother and the juice. Hilarious!

  50. Nancy says:

    (((Dr Stick up her butt)))

  51. Amber...Real Wife says:

    Kandi needs intensive therapy She’s a good daughter who has been manipulated by her mother her whole life. MamaJoyce should be ashamed that she is torturing her daughter this way but the witch is probably so mentally damaged she doesn’t see it. Poor Kandi. #RunToddRun

  52. BuffaLOVE says:

    I thought Kandi and Todd got married in Mexico? Am I wrong?!? I do not understand how she doesn’t see how disrespectful her mom is to her. Why should she show respect to her mom when all she does is shit on her. She has zero proof of any of these accusations.

  53. Kandi was on WWHL and she cried while she said that is her momma and at the end of the day, she is going to be respectful and she knows her mom is not respectful to her but that is her momma. And people can tweet as much as they want it is not going to change the fact that that is her momma and she is going to take care of her. Her mom took care of her and just because she started making more money that didn’t change the fact that that was her momma. Very emotional.

  54. TexasTart says:

    • chismosa™ says:

      I think she’s saying that because on WWH Kandi kind of kalled Cynthia out a bit on her talking about Kandi last week on WWH?

  55. TexasTart says:

    Very cool and unique “zipper” dress… https://twitter.com/Kandi/status/409891955725070336

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