Couples Therapy Episode 4 “Fess up!!! by Mr and Mrs LuLu
Opens to Fakrah’s porno! I think that is her boyfriend. It gets lots of screen time that’s for sure. Sada/Whitney feel the need to share with Taylor/John about it. But it does emotionally impact Taylor enough to justify more screen time.
Dr Jen opens with the topic “fidelity and trust.” Kelsey and ghost start with Kelsey voicing trust issues. She knows Ghost has issues with cheating. He voices that he is not in love with her since they only dated 4 months. She says they dated for about a year. It’s clear Ghost wants out. His major concern needing addressing was his image. He’s worried about being viewed as “the bad guy!?!?!”
Jon reveals surprise surprise that his marriage to Kate was a business transaction. Also that it was empty no affection clearly Kate#1 has daddy issues. He reveals he never cheated on her but he did go out two nights in a row partying. When he came home she said nothing. She used him to make babies. He has major insecurities when it comes to relationships. Kate#2 brings up cheating when they are broken up??? Umm no idea why this is an issue??? They are a very strange couple. I’m beginning to wonder if it’s fake?? Like she is a friend that he asked to come on the show with?????? Something is off……
John feels lonely and abandoned when Taylor leaves him to go talk to her two fans. Taylor who was abused has a hard time with neediness??
Kelsey and Ghost
Done done and done. It’s clear these two are at odds on what one considers a relationship. Ghost feels some sort of attachment to Kelsey. But to me it seems like a friendship.
Fakrah’s backdoor porno
Jon is speculating with Kate #2 and Kelsey about Fakrah’s porno. They clearly do not like her; no one in that house does. They all feel she is trying to bank on her porno like Kim Kardashian. All are sick of her playing a victim. Her porno is her boyfriend.
Dr Jen is trying to figure out why nobody wants to play with Fakrah. It’s her mom’s fault!! It’s everyone else’s fault no one wants to be around her. Exception of Taylor everyone else in the house are friendly. It’s clear they gave her many opportunities to be nice to her. So back to her mother, it’s all her fault that she can’t produce one tear not one!
Sade’s birthday party
They invite Sade/Whitney’s friends and family to celebrate. Ghost and Sade get a little too close for Whitney’s comfort. It starts a fight, Whitney has major trust issues. To me it’s interesting that jealousy in their relationship can be over a guy as well?? Whitney’s got to get over it; no idea why she got that mad over that. In the morning they more or less resolve their issue.
Jon’s playing with his little friend!!
Kate#2 accuses Jon of playing with his friend. Looks like he was just scratching his balls maybe…. This causes Kate#2 to go ballistic she is embarrassed by his *alleged* chocking the chicken…….to be continued….Poor Jon!!
‘Hey let me rub this salt in your emotional wounds’ Jen has decided that trust and fidelity are the topic of the day in group therapy….
Ghost needs individual help, he can’t deal with his feelings of shame over not knowing how to be an adult in a relationship. It’s damn near the same as an addict’s shame with not knowing how to not self destruct.
Jon and Kate Two. This relationship is screwed. It’s a rebound fling started in a bar gone on far too long.
Whitney and Sade, MY SIDES! I find their marital issues entertaining, but don’t mean to sound dismissive of them. I’m a few years now into my own marriage, and these are all the things that me and my wife have dealt with. I look back on it myself like, ‘What the Hell was all that drama about?’ So I’m pulling for them, because it is rough, but they got genuine love, and I know first hand thats enough to get past the problems they have. An unintentional side effect of marriage is it forces you to ‘get over yourself’ in a lot of ways, and I see them both struggling past that point in their marriage, i.e, curbing pride, understanding marriage’s impact on self determination, etc, etc.
Taylor and John, what is new here? He says he is jealous of Taylor chatting it up with her ‘fans’ when they go out. Taylor said what she thinks it is, and of course it’s self serving to her.
You did porn. You are not a victim. You are a person who makes really bad choices. And cries, and then cries some more, and cries again… If Farrah was a celestial object, she’d be an emotional black hole. Honestly though, they edited to over dramatize the whole ‘camera person’ point. It was her and her ‘boyfriend’ only there, it’s called the ‘Gonzo’ style of porn production.
Let’s watch everyone tip around the house, snickering, and watching Farrah’s tension level rise as the six hundred pound ‘Back Door Teen Mom’ gorilla follows her room to room.
Farrah’s one on one session,
I’ll agree, her parents completely failed at parenting. …And Doctor Jen goes into this psycho babble about reflection, or some crap, and parents validating our worth. Thats crap, you can walk away from crap parents as an adult just like any other crap relationship in your life. It’s up to you to determine who besides yourself you need validation from, if anybody. Sure, Farrah is a victim in ways, at a few points in her life. Does she really now need to be treated like a victim fresh after the fact now, all the time, forever?
Sade’s Birthday Party,
Hey, I’ve got an idea, lets give people in therapy a party with access to a lot of alcohol.. Oh wait…
Whitney, you are a husband, you’ll get jealous a lot, especially being married to an attractive woman. Trust me, I know first hand. Guess what, it doesn’t get easy, you just learn to deal with that total normal, yet aggressive, feeling. And no, it isn’t insecurity either. It’s passion, and passion can screw with you just like pride will. It’s asking yourself ‘Why is my wife hanging on anyone but me? I’m the baddest, sexiest, ‘sum ah bitch’ in her world.’ Part of that whole getting over yourself thing in marriage is learning to make your passion for your significant other a positive, not a chain that emotionally jerks you about every time it gets yanked.
One thing though, Whitney, I saw how your wife played you a little at her party. She did with Ghost exactly, exactly what she says she does, earlier in group therapy, to get a rise out of you. And later she was digging into you to get an emotional reaction. I’d save that on video, and just replay it for her the day after she does it again. Yes, it’s childish and will piss her off. But rare is the guaranteed ‘I am right’ as a husband, relish this.
He wasn’t jerking it. As a man I can attest to needing to just sometimes lay down and give the Captain and his crew a good long scratching. I even sit there talking to myself in a pirate voice when doing it sometimes. ‘Ahoy me Hearties, we be needing to scrape the barnacles off you salty sea dogs.’ No really, Jon needs to get rid of Kate Two there.
Next week we are moving so the following week we will double up on the blogs!
Wish us luck!!