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Real Housewives Of New York S6E6

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Kristen: I Am Having Sex With My Husband

How did this Episode get so sexual? All the BJ talk, threesome talk, sex while pregnant talk — or lack thereof?

I’d rather watch an episode of Sex and the City.

Ramona is back, trying to fix the big mess. Good for her. We are so over it. She is the only one trying to at this point.

Technically, you are all co-workers so someone should be trying to get everyone together to film.  Ramona understands this.

I am happy that Aviva and Heather sat down to work through their issues. Wait. . .what were they again? Oh right, they just don’t like each other? Mmmmmm good luck working that out. . .That’s going to be a hard one. Oh, nope they worked it out. They both agreed to not like each other. Phew. . .

At least no one grabbed each other and drag the other across the floor by the hair.

Heather’s Party: Beautiful Party. Heather and John are just so wonderful together, so in LOVE. Not to compare, but we are all different. Josh and I are very much happy and in love. We just have our moments. . .I HATE when he is late and doesn’t communicate it to me. That night, perfect example. We agreed to meet at the party. He called me five minutes before I was leaving to say come get me and we will go together. I am very set in my ways and scheduled. I didn’t want to be late. Ugggggh he just beats to his own drum sometimes. And, well, just every once in a while I want him to remember work will come and go and his wife and family are forever.

I think he needs to be reminded that his wife may not be forever and the kids he could see on the weekends and every other holiday.  Maybe he’ll appreciate you more.

The therapy thing. . .I had been seeing some one off-and-on for a bit. He finally agreed to go to therapy, so I asked my girl. It was harmless, he saw her one time. She helped, it’s not a big deal. It was a little wifey white lie that’s all. No harm, no foul. They eventually find out. . .when you shoot a reality show.

Tiny snowflakes can turn into an avalanche if you’re not careful.   

Aviva on Frenemies

Boxers often embrace each other after a vicious fight. You see opposing team members hug each other following a brutal football game. Tennis players at least shake hands after an exhausting match. There’s a certain gentility, respect, an acknowledgement that although we’ve been pitted in combat against each other, we walk away from the battle, the trash talking, and the competition when the game is over. . .even it we’re going to pick it up again tomorrow.

If Aviva considers being a housewife a competition or a physical endeavor, what do you win?

That used to be the way with us Housewives. In the heat of the moment, we could say some awful things about and to each other, then in more clement moments insincere apologies would be issued and we’d air kiss and make up. Even without the calming influence of pinot, there was a glue (not the sniffing kind), an affinity, a consanguinity that maintained our tight little band/sorority/clique/gang/coven. We may not have been planning long walks through the heather or seaside vacations together, but we recognized our bond, and were civilized enough to enjoy each other. . .when we weren’t scratching each other’s eyes out.

You have been a housewife for one season.  You’re not Vicki for crying out loud.  Have you seen what Porsha did recently? Or Teresa did her first and second season to Danielle?   These women are not going to air kiss and makeup.

  1. This season seems to be the end of all that. The battles on the air have continued in these blogs and over social and traditional media where antagonists have planted stories, savaged their rivals though surrogates on Twitter, and even enlisted minions to plant unfavorable reviews on Amazon and elsewhere.

Well this has prompted me to head over to Amazon to checkout the reviews.  I noticed a lot of 5 star reviews came from a lot of one reviewer profiles who reviewed the book as soon as it came out.  If it makes you feel better, I’m sure there are a few that actually liked your book.

Yes, Carole and I had a spat about ghost writers blah blah blah (I won’t bore you with the details again) and, really, WGAF? As literary feuds go, it’s not exactly Wordsworth and Coleridge. And for making an impact in modern terms, while our books are doing respectfully, J. K. Rowling vs. Suzanne Collins it ain’t. (I just checked Amazon and neither Carole’s novel nor my memoir Leggy Blonde cracked their top 10,000 in sales — though Carole’s first book hit number one in books about drawing. Yes, odd as it is, Amazon thinks What Remains is a book about drawing. And we both got our butts kicked by the The Berenstain Bears and The Easter Story, but that may just be seasonal fluctuation.)

Ok, so you suck at marketing.

Carole was shocked, shocked that there were rumors about her book having been ghostwritten and that I would ask her about it, and contracted terminal vapors about how my query to her has destroyed her career. She fought back with mouth and guns blazing, even releasing her Diddy-certified, street wannabe, attack pit bull Heather on me. This was months ago. And we’re still fighting. Really? The Capulets and Montagues were more forgiving. (Sorry, was that too Vassar? OK, make it the Jets and Sharks.)

Stop fighting before the audience decides to put a pox on both your houses.

It would have been no small journey to come back from all the sniping. Nevertheless, in this week’s fairly tame episode (to spice things up, Bravo showed you Heather calling me a “motherf—er” again like three times), I attempted to talk it out with Heather and try to get back to what passes for Housewife tranquility.  Heather was having none of it. She felt I had injured her patron Carole too much. She did tell me that she was having the rest of our merry Housewife band at her anniversary party. It’s Housewife etiquette for all of us to be included in each other’s events. At the height of GhostGate, I invited Carole to my housewarming party (I should have been more clear; apparently she thought it was a houseburning party). Heather said she was undecided about whether or not to invite me. Then later, a couple of hours before the event, she informed me — by text — that I didn’t make the cut. She would have let me off the hook earlier but she was on a “conference call.” Then, in case I might have forgotten how “street” she is, she ended the text with her signature “holla!” 

I like Heather but it was bad form to do that.  You guys are coworkers and need to film together.  It is a very mean girl move.  Even grade schoolers have more class.

It’s odd, after all that, I was hurt. It would have been better, of course, if the night before Heather had just said something like, “OK, let’s try again — but after tomorrow.” Instead she put me on the bubble (“I’ll invite Aviva, I’ll invite Aviva not.”) then left me hanging until the next afternoon to burst the bubble. How do you make someone feel even worse about not being included? Well, that technique works.

She should have told you not to come to her party because feelings were still pretty high at the time.

I think she found it too defiant and provocative that I didn’t curl up and die from her attack at LuAnn’s. That’s the way it is with bullies. I walked away. She couldn’t get to me by going all thug on me so she did it this way. And dammit, it worked. So, yes, I was hurt. But I’m a big girl; I’ll find a way to handle it. But I also mourn this new era in Housewife Town. The era where at the end of the day, we’re not a group, but just individuals who can easily be dismissed and discarded.

Ok now you are going a little too far playing the victim card.

Heather: I Don’t Hate Aviva, I Hate Her Behavior

Packed to the hilt, the event brings a full house to Karen Karch and I’m so happy you get to see the beautiful pieces she designed. They are extraordinary. All the girls are out to support the cause and Ramona practically came straight off the plane from Africa — I am so grateful to see her that I give her a big hug and kiss. I am delighted Ramona and I are finding our way and truly becoming friends. I bring her up to speed on the Aviva issues and she seems to understand and agree that Aviva just goes in too hard and too deep. The pattern I see with Aviva concerns me, and I have to be honest about my feelings. We are not in a good place because the hard hooks I continually see her throw at people are recurring and something we all recognize.

At least you see the behavior, now you can deal with it.

The next scene finds Kristen, Carole and I on location in NYC at the spring photo-shoot for Yummi by Heather Thomson. This is not the first time we have used Kristen to model and she always delivers. The first time I hired Kristen years ago, she and Josh had just moved back to NY and I didn’t even connect the dots that she was Josh’s wife! She won us over on her own merit! Kristen is gorgeous and such a great representative for Yummie. She loves my leggings and I’m glad you get to see her rock them! Of course, everything looks great on Kristen — but my leggings are a favorite and it feels good that she not only models for me but genuinely loves my products. I feel the same about Josh’s EBOOST– it’s the real deal. Carole often pops in on my photo shoots. It’s always good to have her around. I am so happy Radz and Kristen are developing a genuine bond of their own.

I don’t think Kristen needs any tummy holding in pants.  Her tummy holds itself in.

While we are taking a break, as if on cue, I get a call from Ramona who is now suddenly dead set on forcing a peace between Aviva and me. And it certainly feels forced. . .Why do I feel as if I am being ambushed? But I agree to drinks with Aviva in hopes of setting the record straight. Who knows, maybe she misunderstood my intentions, feelings, and outrage and maybe we can put this behind us and move forward, or in the least have a better understanding of each other.

Ramona realizes that she needs her other coworkers to get along.  Hey if she can put aside her feelings regarding the Avivamonster and hang out with her then everyone needs to.

Drinks with Aviva — right out of the gate, she wants to set ground rules. After last week I am not happy I lost my temper. However, I know myself and can’t promise not to swear in a conversation of this nature. I do need to work on that but this is not the time. We are both arch and ready to attack. Maybe I am programmed this way because I now have so much experience with Aviva and her tactics and know I am next in line.

Put 5 bucks in the swear jar and donate it to your charity.

The idea that Aviva thinks a comparison with the late Anna Nicole Smith, (R.I.P) and Sonja is a compliment just shows how different we think. To me it is outrageous, even egregious. As glamorous as Anna Nicole was, her alleged addictions drove her to the grave too soon — not cool Aviva! It also wasn’t cool that Aviva twisted my words around to make it sound like I don’t appreciate stay-at-home moms, which is typical Aviva. REWIND girl! I said nothing in reference to mothers at all. I don’t name drop. My career includes working for well-known people who have greatly impacted my life and just so happen to be famous. It’s always a tit-for-tat with Aviva and yet again, instead of taking any responsibility for her actions she tries to turn it around to support her negative argument, just like she did with Carole.

I feel like Aviva should be reminded that there is a camera rolling and can playback her twisted version of events.

I said nothing about working mothers vs. stay-at-home moms. What I did say is that Aviva doesn’t respect the careers people build, or the people that have built them. After two glasses of wine and several lipstick applications, I come to the conclusion that only one thing that truly matters remains: Do Aviva and I care enough about one another to try to move ahead? I have said it and I mean it — I do not hate Aviva, but I do hate her behavior. I met and grew to care about a person who is of value, but that person doesn’t come out much anymore. Come on Aviva. . .be honest, be real, and then we can have fun!

Whether you build a career or family, the fact that someone has poured their time, heart and energy into something should be valued and not broken down.

I do leave drinks with an open mind about inviting her to our anniversary party, but unlike Aviva, I am honest. And even with the pressure from Sonja and Ramona to invite her, I know in my heart that it’s too early to go there. I need to navigate through moving forward honestly. Of course, I also need to run it by Jon and I believe in going with your gut, and clearly made the right decision. This night is about me and Jon, not me and Aviva.

I think it is the way you disinvited her that was not cool.  Making her wait until a few hours before the party to disinvite her is a crappy thing to do to someone.  It doesn’t look like you are moving forward honestly.

Jon and I have had 10 wonderful years as husband and wife. The time flew by but our years have been marked with some exceptional moments especially having our kids. We have so much to be thankful for and to celebrate and I really wanted to share and mark our first 10 years on the actual date, with a very special occasion full of many of our true friends that you don’t get to see. I was a bit disappointed that Sonja and Ramona decided to not only to skip the party (after RSVPing yes) but to do so without any heads up to me. Instead, they designated LuAnn as their emissary of regret. There is more to this story than solidarity with Aviva, I might add.  Wow. . .but you know this behavior is completely in character for the both of them.

What they did was not good form either.  At least they never put out an etiquette book.  I understand that they recognize a certain behavior from you that you withhold invites to people as a form of social power.  Deciding not to go, takes that power away by not bringing any value to the invite.

Ramona, I guess once a s— stirrer, always a s— stirrer and that stinger of hers, is ever present. I try not to sweat the small stuff and that is exactly what their behavior was. I don’t have time or energy for worrying about these two ladies who live at the fringe of my life. I just continue to learn about them both, warts and all.

I guess their countermove worked because you saw the value they would have brought to your event and now you are trying to take that value away by inferring that Ramonja mean very little to you.    Their presence at your party would have probably brought your party more airtime therefore more value.

What’s important tonight is friends. One of our besties, Carole, wrote and delivered the most wonderful speech to Jon and I but you don’t get to see it — like a lot of the party — but I can assure you it was a celebration! The best celebration of good friends, good food, lots of Ciroc, and thanks to my dear friend and DJ PeterPaul, who was also at our wedding 10 years ago, good music! The tunes were rocking and we got to do just that! Everyone here is where they want to be at this very moment and that is what is important to me.

Sorry there was not much airtime for your party. I think Ramonja tried to teach you a lesson that you should invite all your castmates if you knew the production crew would be filming the event.

Ramona Explains Why She Didn’t RSVP to Heather

I remember being really thrown off and a little hurt when Heather did not invite me to London last year. It’s not a great feeling to not be included when everyone else is. Obviously, with Aviva being the only one who was not going to be invited to the party, it did seem like history repeating itself. By alienating Aviva, it was only going to prolong the issue.

True dat.  I understand you were hurt by Heather and she is repeating history with Aviva but why support Aviva when she has attacked you and Sonja? I do agree that Aviva should not have been disinvited because you are filming a show together. The whole “don’t film with that person” or “don’t invite this person” is being very manipulative.

I thought it was urgent that Heather and Aviva make amends so we could all just hang out and get along. It was for the better of the group that not too much time passed with all the fighting. I felt they needed to meet up and just squash it. They needed a little push — so I was there to give it to them!

I’m sure you would prefer that Aviva be the villain than yourself.  It’s a lot less stressful.

Sometimes Aviva speaks without thinking. That’s what she did when she compared Sonja to Anna Nicole Smith. It was clearly not a compliment and when Heather called her out on it referencing the previous comment about a”downward spiral,” you could tell by her face she realized and was embarrassed.  Aviva does seem to favor drama a bit. I think this has been pretty evident since the “Where is my banner?!?” St Barth’s debacle.

I think Aviva likes to go for the jugular when she is hurt.  But who the hell gets hurt when they don’t receive a welcome they felt they deserve?  There are worse things in life to get hurt over.  Not getting a banner is not one of them.

When Heather invited me to her anniversary party, it was a true sign our friendship was taking a turn for the better. It had occurred to me though that Avery was leaving for school in four weeks. I wanted to spend that Friday and weekend with her, just hanging at home, seeing her girlfriends come over and spending that time with her. I admit it was selfish of me — but when it comes to my daughter, I would do anything.

Avery shouldn’t be used as an excuse.  You wanted to make a point to Heather.

I didn’t tell Heather I wasn’t coming because I didn’t want to upset her the night of the party. Maybe that wasn’t the right decision. I did send her the most beautiful arrangement of flowers I could find the next day as an apology for missing her special night.

Not attending while you RSVP’d yes is very rude.  If someone did that to you, you would flip your lid.

I didn’t take Heather’s comments about Sonja and I being on the fringe to heart. When people are hurt they say things they don’t mean. We have since moved past it as that’s what true friends do!

If you could move past things with Aviva, I’m sure giving Heather a pass is no problem.

Carole on Fight Club Rule #2

Remember, last season, my Real Housewives Fight Club Rule #2: Invite me to your party.  Our little world thrives on party invites, it’s an integral and recurring theme. Any show that has “party non-invite” as its central conflict drums up the operatic high drama of a good Russian novel. It’s the Real Housewives’ Crime and Punishment: first the horror of a non-invitation, and then the shattering aftermath.

Heather paid the price with less air time for her special day.  It looked like the party was over in 2 seconds and Heather was whining most of the time.

Heather’s anniversary celebration was fantastic. It’s inspiring to be around a couple like her and Jonathan, they’re solid. They have great friends, and are generally the most fun couple I’ve had the pleasure to spend time with.

Outside of that, what’s to say? Threesomes pair well with caviar. Ramona watched lion porn in Africa. Vivs still goes on and on with her rules, and her nonsensical analogies. I could go on and on telling you all the ways she was unsupportive of me but you’ve heard it and I don’t want to bore the life out of everyone. She doesn’t seem to mind.

Unfortunately this crap doesn’t sell books.  I liked the caviar tasting.  It made me go out and buy some cheaper roe to consume with some sour cream and toast.

Lu is still trying to figure out why we can’t just all eat paella. Kristen seduced Elvis, and Ramona makes fluffy eggs.

Did I miss anything? Oh yeah, I dated George Clooney. Someone had to.

How nice of you to take pity on the poor guy.

Jonathan asked me to write something for his and Heather’s anniversary party. And like so many scenes where we are supportive, and not complaining about each other, it got cut. If you read it out loud with an accent it rhymes. Here it is:

Ten Years You’re Super-wife to Jon, and Yummie Mummie to Ella and Jax, A friend to wayward Mermaid Queens, An upstate girl, with big city dreams.

You can roll tough with Puffy, and still giggle with the girls. Ride motorbikes in denim, or rock a black dress and pearls. You always do what is right, and not just what’s popular. You tell people your mind, without judgment or gossip-er. You’re serious in business, yet playful in life. Met Jon on a beach, now you’re husband and wife.

Like the Eagle and the Hummingbird, the Lion and Lamb, the Athlete and the Spectator, Or Peanut butter, and jam I draw from your strengths. For our differences I give thanks But also, for your cheshire cat smile and those three-paneled tanks.

Cheers to your wonderful husband, and your beautiful marriage, and to our vodka-fueled cherry bombs. and a friendship I chair-ish.

LuAnn Reminds Ramona NYC Isn’t the Savannah

Why Ramona felt the need to put Aviva on the phone with Heather while shopping for home goods is baffling to me. I guess Ramona wanted to seize the moment? She’s been feeling peaceful since her trip to South Africa, but she’s not in the Savannah anymore, this is NYC darling.

It must baffle you when Ramona does things spur of the moment.  I understand it is not the way you operate when it comes to female relationships.  I think her way is just more entertaining.

I understand why Heather didn’t invite Aviva to her anniversary party because even though they made up, the wounds were still fresh and Heather really wanted this night to be drama-free. I was stuck in the middle between Heather and Ramona and Sonja — but I eventually had to say that they weren’t coming to the party so that Heather didn’t expect them the entire night.

Poor Luann to be stuck in the middle and delivering the message.  Still not part of the drama and not a very good voice of reason.

As for Ramona, Sonja and Aviva being on the “fringe” of the friend group, that remains to be seen. These ladies are very much a part of our lives so let’s see how this season plays out between us all.

I can see that Heather so desperately wants to put herself and Carole front and center of the attention in the group and delegate Ramonja to being bit players.  Ramonja are not ones to let others take the spotlight.  The rest of the season should be interesting.

Sonja on the Anna Nicole Smith Thing

I love it! Ramona walks in to the jewelry party and says — “Of course I’m always here to support you!” Heather and Ramona, best friends as always! I almost spit my wine out. How things change over time.

I’m sure Ramona was happy to get an invite.

Now she has disinvited Aviva. I feel bad. I didn’t feel bad when Ramona was disinvited to London because it was Heather’s trip, it was costly and Ramona is a big girl. Aviva has been cut out of everything. A’Diva is fragile, in my eyes, been through a lot of crap for decades and now she was invited to the anniversary party and then not invited! Ramona was never invited to London.

It is nice that you want to champion Aviva.  Apparently there is something more going on than just what happened in Aviva’s past.

Aviva saying that Anna Nicole Smith’s spiral downwards was similar to my situation is not a compliment. After all, the girl is dead. I said this before. I think that Aviva gets nervous and blurts things out in her defense instead of going with her feelings. Why didn’t she just say that she was wrong in saying that and that she adored me? Or say that she was just lashing out and coming from a bad place, and that #Ramonja got over it? That would have shut Heather down, no?

A lot of people’s pet peeves is when someone takes out their frustrations, anger or anxieties on them.  It has nothing to do with them yet they are paying for it somehow.  I doubt Heather would stand for that.

Carole and I have another man in common — Yolanda’s husband David Foster. The housewife world really is so small! But at least he’s real! Can we talk about Kristen and the fake Elvises that she has allegedly has been swapping spit with? We really have to get to know this other side of Kristen. As the stomach turns.

Foster gets around.  Maybe as much as Clooney does.

Heather said that she was going to invite Aviva, then I find out she disinvited for sure at Aviva’s house with Ramona. Ramona wanted to go to the Hamptons and I wanted to go to St. Tropez with Big Ben to check on my house that is for sale. The energy was bad for Heather’s party and Ramona and I took it as a great excuse to take off.  Heather said we weren’t the special favorite people — so I don’t think she really missed us. Besides, we gave them something to bitch about. There was nothing else to vent about. Fringe friends is probably true. So. . .off to St Tropez I went with Ben to my best friend (and Godmother to my daughter) and to get that house sold.

I am sure you are other people’s special favorite people so not being Heather’s is no big deal.

Kristen said that I would care if Heather did not came to one of my parties. She really doesn’t know me. Not true! I’m not like that. I have a lot of parties and friends. I understand, and I’m flexible. I appreciate my friendship with Heather more than showing up to a party. We will have and have had many good times together, in fact I texted her to let her know why I needed to go to St. Tropez and she understood (besides that hot guy LuLu spotted was a guy Heather wanted to set ME up with!)

Not everyone needs to go to every party but to not go when you’ve already RSVP’d yes is not cool.

Ramona bird-dogged Heather and Carole big time. She sent Carole hunting after Aviva at her housewarming party and then somehow Heather got in a twist with Ramona? Oh, that Singer Stinger!

The Singer Stinger strikes again.  She is the veteran that runs the show.


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It’s the Fourth of July weekend in the Hamptons, and the women gather for some fun at the beach. Kristen and Ramona butt heads over Ramona avoiding Heather’s anniversary party. The tension sets the mood for the rest of the weekend.

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220 Responses to Real Housewives Of New York Cast Blogs – Let’s Chat

  1. Powell says:

    Hey y’all.

  2. Powell says:

    LOL Kenya is putting the batteries in her megaphone and Kandi said she should at least have had the batteries in and not put the batteries in in front of them. LOL. That was a good one. 😀

  3. Powell says:

    LOL NeNe was funny saying this man came up to her and said “Ke Mora is across the street”. NeNe said she didn’t understand what the man was saying and walked away and got I to her car. Then Kenya called her when she was in her car and Kenya said why was NeNe so rude to her BF NeNe said who? Then realized it was the guy on the Street. NeNe said if that’s meeting her BF, then that’s meeting her BF.

    • chismosa™ says:

      Powell- I am glad you saw that nene had a Phaedra-like STANKface on the whole time. She’s so over Atlanta. She thinks she should be on network tv!

      – maybe the guy was there in LA but Kenya was not so she had told him oh nene is staying at — hotel? They all tweet and instagram their goings on all the time.

      I see by what you were pointing out when nene was hanging with Kenya and they talked about her boyfriend that nene didn’t find him so “fake” then. But she then makes up the story of the hotel and the random man running up to her.
      Uhhhh nene. Please.

      Kenya looks so pretty. I don’t know why they knock Kenya’s skin. Nenes skin looks terrible on HD! they should shut it about her skin. Make fun of her boobies or butt if you want ….. 🙂

      Enjoy it !

      • Powell says:

        Sometimes Kenya’s skin looks good and sometimes it doesn’t. This past season every now and then she had breakout.

        • chismosa™ says:

          Yes. It’s all so common now in women >> teenagers.

          Nene doesn’t look all that FAB when she’s not made up on DWTS …. She shouldn’t laugh.

          It’s all Phake can call her on. Or having no husband. Because Bethenny & others were married when first on their shows. 🙄

          I get calling out on the alleged lies from last year though 😦

        • LaineyLainey says:

          I think it’s her hormones. Just throwing that in…

  4. Powell says:

    NeNe, Phadera and I guess Porsha’-s assistant had to calm Porsha down. It took all three of them to calm her down. It was wrong of Porsha but damn she dragged Kenya by her hair/weave, it was some weave cuz her hair is not that long, at least 4ft.

    • chismosa™ says:

      The whole “we discussed this Porsha!” And covering her mouth with man hands —–> Porsha was doing nene’s dirty work to fight Kenya for her. Jmo 
      Guy in striped shirt-pants — he was awfully ready to jump in at any moment to PoorPorsha™
      Carrying her and all. Poor poor baby girl! 👶👶😫

      As for the hair weaves, extensions, what have you- I have watched MANY seasons of bad girls club where this sort of $hit goes down all the time. Extensions and things are found on the ground. Even Danielle from nj had pieces of hair out –without being even thrown that far. 

      So I don’t know — about Kenya’s having anything faux there. 
      She never wears her hair stick straight on the show. 

      When I have my hair stick straight it’s almost rapunzel length — people are always shocked. It’s just bc it’s straight — looks so long. 
      Who knows ?? 

      #Team”Provoker”/”Bully”, not TeamPoor baby girl. Waaaaaaaah. 

      • Jan (TexasTart) says:

        That was too weird how Nene handled Porsha…..she was very invested in that. It took me a couple Rewind to get those words..but she said that! Uh huh.

        So agree on the hair. WHO could question the authenticity of Kenya’s hair after that dragging by her hair?! I wanted to point that out before, but not sure I got around to it!

  5. Powell says:

    A new show on Bravo. Ladies of London. Ooh. I wonder if these ladies across the pond are as cookoo as they are on the east and west coasts of HWs? I’m going to check it out in May when it premieres.

    • chismosa™ says:

      Me too. Apparently they can only do London or Australia or Canada for us ! Since it’s all we’d understand.

      I bet the real upper classes of London will totally frown upon the ones on the show claiming to be upper class.

      There’s an American and looks like an Asian woman also

  6. chismosa™ says:

    can someone confirm for me —– if the gossip is true that KENYA was fired from ca this week then that means BRANDI is going farther ????

    Be still my heart. OMG.

    Or maybe she was sent home for “mental” issues ?

  7. Powell says:

    LOL Andy tells Kenya he’s sorry it happened. He wishes he got to Porsha faster.

  8. Powell says:

    Andy told Porsha to go home and get some rest. At some point she needs to apologize to Kenya.
    And ooops. Kandi will say to Joyce that Joyce had credit cards in Kandi’s name that Kandi knew nothing about. Mmmm hmmm. I told y’all. It’s all about the Benjamin’s w/Joyce. That’s why she doesn’t want Todd around. Mmmm hmmm. In my Wendy Williams tone. 🙂

    • chismosa™ says:

      I love how mama Joyce is going to say “I paid for that!” With what????
      Does she work? Retirement money? What?????

      She’s such a sneaky fool. But Kandi won’t disrespect her and the other ladies surely won’t and I’m sure Andy will play nice with the mommy. She’ll never get called on how she twists her reasons on the $$$$.

      Shameful. Kandi needs to break away for some time.


    • Jan (TexasTart) says:

      LOL about in your Wendy Williams tone!

    • Barb (just wondering in Jersey) says:

      Sounds like mama Joyce is projecting her actions on to Todd. She’s a shifty character out only for what she can get from her daughter. Shame on her.

  9. iceNfire says:


  10. Powell says:

    Poor Jack. Hopefully his hearing can be repaired. Maybe coaxial implants.

  11. Love the white shirt Kristin is wearing!

  12. Powell says:

    Leg tells Kristen to lower her voice around the kids d then tells Kristen to shut the eff up? WTF!?!?!

  13. I “get” Heather wanting to fix SOMETHING!!!!!!! The desperation …..poor thing!!! So glad that part of my life is over…oh wait, I wish I could “fix” my Beanie Boo, 😦

  14. Ewww the Cheater!!!

  15. Powell says:

    Ramona come freakin on. She’s not wearing high heels.

  16. Powell says:

    It’s all of your biz Ramotional. You’re all in it cuz Leg dragged everyone in it whether she wants to admit it or not.

  17. Powell says:

    Well that’s very good news. I hope that’s how it turned out. Cute Jack.

  18. meneseela says:

    According to MTO — allegedly, supposedly — the returning ATL housewives are Nene, Phaedra, Kandi and Kenya. They got their contract offers today.

    Cynthia is OUT.
    Porsha and Marlo are dunzo.

  19. Powell says:

    Why is Sonja’s assistant w/her? Sheesh.

    • Jan (TexasTart) says:

      She feels insecure leaving her army of interns behind, so brings along one for …assistance. AKA a driver.

  20. Jan (TexasTart) says:

    Kristen on Aviva “I keeping her at arms length, I mean now that I seen her crazy come out.”

  21. NJBev says:

    just got here.
    Ramona is getting out of hand with her BIG

    • Jan (TexasTart) says:

      Yep….getting tired of her rambling tonight :-/

      • NJBev says:

        on and on and on and on

        • Jan (TexasTart) says:

          and on. I have to mute Aviva, but I could listen to Ramona…..I think that’s really her…probably nothing contrived there, lol.

          • NJBev says:

            do you think Ramona looks ok?
            I noticed it last week, she is swollen-
            I’m wondering if she already knew
            about Mario when this was filming?

            where’s VV and her time line when
            you need it!!!!?????

            • catmom1 says:

              I noticed it too. She is looking pretty rough. Don’t think I’ve ever seen her complexion look so unflattering. I wondered the same thing about Mario. Did you see the look on her face when Mario made the comment about cheaters to Carole?

              • Barb (just wondering in Jersey) says:

                I saw the look of utter disgust when Mario made his cheater statement. Ramona knew for sure.

  22. Jan (TexasTart) says:

    Side eye to Carole for what she is wearing to a July 4th party!

  23. NJBev says:

    got a little overwhelmed there Sonja??
    holy crap.
    it’s the first time Ramona ever apologized
    like that-that I can remember.
    And we all know NOW that Ramona is in the
    same boat as her…..

  24. Jan (TexasTart) says:

    I love this scene when Sonja tells Ramona “you couldn’t handle a day in my life Singer” and “…I need you to be a FRIEND.” Go girl!
    I had to say a very similar thing before….she did it much better though!

  25. lillybee says:

    I felt sorry for Ramona when Mario said something like a joke about cheating being ok. Poor thing looked like she was hit in the gut.

  26. Powell says:

    My mom is watching God Father II. Of course another fav of mine and I got caught up in it.

  27. I am pooped and a little bored with NY so I think it is lights out for me, have a good week and I will catch up later in the week.

  28. Powell says:

    So now Sonja’s a comedian? Sighhhhhh.

  29. cusi77 says:


    I can see Sonja having a stressful life, lots of projects, lots of interns and we haven’t seen any of them come to fruition (sp?) BUT I don’t think that Ramona’s work day is less stressful and she is very focus and accomplished in every project IMHO.

    Ramona apologized to Bethenny, Alex… and even JZ in Morocco. Not to be antagonistic but Ramona recognizes always that she puts her foot on her mouth.

    What is going with Ramona’s face? her face is less expressive… When problems started with Mario and their split?

    • Jan (TexasTart) says:

      Hi cusi, I think we are seeing a different side of Ramona…and it probably does have to do with marital problems she was likely trying to conceal….of course we know it wasn’t kept concealed.

      Anyone remember the time frame? It was last summer with the rumors?

      • NJBev says:

        I said this upthread ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
        where is VV with her timelines when we need them?!?!?!

        • Jan (TexasTart) says:

          I think she just watches BH!

        • VV™ says:

          Hi, NJ 👋👋
          I don’t watch RHONY anymore. I used to watch OC, RHONY, RHONJ and RHOBH. I’m down to “maybe” RHOBH. It seems every year I stop watching a city. This year is RHONJ for sure.

      • Powell says:

        Remember how Camille acted crazy when Kelsey was putting her thru the wringer? Ramona may be more ramotional this season for the same reason. They only went to Africa cuz she was trying to save the marriage. Saying it would be a good trip for Avery just happened to be convenient.

    • MelTheHound says:

      I think Sonja’s life is more Chaos than Stress..

  30. NJBev says:

    whose clambake is this?

  31. Jan (TexasTart) says:

    NOoooooo! Heather LEAVE IT ALONE!
    UGH….no Holla for you.

  32. Powell says:

    Cuz she’s tired of hearing about your 50 jobs and not one penny earned from any of them. Just finish one of them Sonja as Harry said.

  33. cusi77 says:

    AZGIRL : Happy Birthday Hun!!!!! Have a Margarita or two! Enjoy your day!!!!

  34. NJBev says:

    I’m sorry to say this-
    I think NY has jumped the shark.

    it doesn’t hold my interest at all
    anymore. It’s ridicules and boring
    at the same time.
    I’m over it.

    looks like I’m getting my Sunday and
    Tuesday evenings back.

    • lillybee says:

      Definitely Mondays.

    • Jan (TexasTart) says:

      IMO they will allow ONE person to ruin the whole dang season.

      Do you think it would be a different show without Aviva? Better question…for anyone let down by NY

      Would you stay with it if she wasn’t on it?

      • NJBev says:

        I don’t know, Jan. Perhaps.
        she was the one who made me change
        the channel every time she came on-
        and every time I change the channel I
        get interested in another show.
        So, good point.
        I do know for a fact that Kenya ruined
        Atlanta for me. My dislike for her has grown to
        “New Jersey” proportions! lol

    • MelTheHound says:

      Bev, they’ve all jumped at least once. Some were so terrible from the start, they never even made it into the sharkpool.

  35. Powell says:

    So is #Bookgate over then? Please, please, please, please.

  36. NJBev says:

    “he got man boobs!!”
    that is exactly what I said when I saw
    that show-

    • Jan (TexasTart) says:

      You must be on the peoples couch show.

      • NJBev says:

        yes, I was, until Lillybee reminded me the
        Little Couple was on!! good call, Jan!!

        She was saying it about Jermaine Jackson-
        worst case of man boobs I’ve seen in years-
        aallllllllll that plastic surgery and he doesn’t
        fix the most glaringly weird thing on his body???

  37. lillybee says:

    I am watching the Little Couple and Jen’s wig looks so much better than NeNe’s.

    • BB says:

      Anyone’s wig would look better than Nene’s.

    • NJBev says:

      i love little Will saying “Moo Moo” to the Great Dane
      and his father saying “that’s not a cow”

      • NJBev says:

        and Zoey is the cutest, most adorable little “tough one”!
        although, I could imagine the Tea Party being somewhat
        confusing to Zoey…….. coming from Indian orphanage

        • NJBev says:

          Now that I think about it, I wonder if Jen and Bill
          didn’t “overload” the kids with too many grand things
          at once. I understand they have been waiting to do
          all these things with their children for a long time,
          and even though these events are normal for their
          chronological age, I think it’s way over their head
          for their “actual emotional” age.
          Still, it makes for great TV and I’m loving it!

  38. BB says:

    Anyone watching Fargo? The first episode was pretty good. I’m recording it.

  39. plainviewsue says:

    I have to say I am loving RHONY. Can’t give an exact reason why. Maybe cos I was so disgusted with RHOBH? I love seeing the Hamptons. I love Heather & Carole’s friendship. I think Kristen is a great addition. I think the dynamics of Ramona & Sonja’s friendship is very interesting to watch. I’m even enjoying Lulu. As for Aviva, I think she came off better tonight. I think she’s nuts, but she makes good tv.

    Was cringe worthy hearing Mario say that about cheating. Ramona was totally off base with Kristen and her sorry excuse of not going to Heather’s party. But that is Ramona.

    Between RHONY and Southern Charm, (and even RHOC), I’m enjoying Bravo much more. Who woulda thunk it!!?? JMO

    • Powell says:

      Hey Miss Sue. I’m enjoying NY. Hopefully #Bookgate is kapoot. I saw the look on Ramona’s face when Mario said that. Sad. Can Sonja just pick a job. Any and start earn a living? Ramona is tired of hearing about it. Maybe she should have talked to Sonja another time though. Ramona was so so wrong w/Kristen. She did exactly what she was telling Kristen not to do. But like you said, that’s Ramona.
      My new favorite Bravo shows are SC, MDL all cities and The People’s Couch. HWs are no longer my favorite. I like NY. I’ll see if I can tolerate BH next season cuz it could go w/NJ to not be watched. I can tolerate Miami and OC somewhat.

    • NJBev says:

      Oh Sue
      I wish I could say the same thing. I keep trying
      to like it, but it all feels so “old” to me. I don’t
      know why. Maybe I’m just over the series?
      “Series Overload?”
      Well, I’m glad your getting a kick out of it, and
      hopefully I’ll “snap out of it” and it will entertain
      me the way it once did………. sigh…………………

    • MelTheHound says:

      I think they’re going to eat Kristen alive.. Ramona is really coming off as a bitch this season.

  40. Powell says:

    LOL I’m watching The People’s Couch. I love the older ladies. One of them played a minute to win it game. Too funny.

  41. Powell says:

    I hate Vicki in tube tops and halter tops cuz she’s got to much boobs. I’D why she can’t dress appropriately for her size and age.

    • NJBev says:

      Because she see’s something entirely different from what we do
      when she looks in the mirror, Powell.
      Her ego has completely taken over all common sense. This is
      a woman, who, not 5 years ago was shocked when someone
      got a Rolex. She :” bought” her daughter a car, but made the kid
      pay off the note-
      NOW she drives 2 $100K+ cars, has at least 1 $35k+ Rolex and
      pays Lord knows how much, for a sheister, swindling, boyfriend-
      (because he tells her what she WANTS to hear,) He feeds that
      ego like super premium unleaded with turbo-fuel additives, and
      she fills her love tank full. She was, at one time the smart one in
      the bunch. She has since become a fool who believes her own
      fake hype.

      • NJBev says:

        oh, and if you look closely, her newest Benz is the new version
        of the car Lauri’s husband bought her as a surprise years ago
        after their(RHOOC) photo shoot. (Vickie admits to her jealousy)
        Her Rolex is a more souped up version of the one that Tamra got
        for her 40th from Simon. (admitted to being jealous over that)
        This woman has some SERIOUS insecurity issues that she is
        masking with her $$.

  42. Jan (TexasTart) says:

    ❗ LuAnn is on Watch What Happens Live tonight.

  43. AZGirl says:

    Hey gang! Just want to say THANK YOU FOR THE BIRTHDAY WISHES!
    I was on the phone with my sister while watching NY so I once again missed another episode. BUT! heavens Sonja’s outfit at the Hamptons party. Really she is rocking it but totally inappropriate.
    Heather’s son is a doll.
    Did watch People’s Couch. Totally LOVE this show.
    Hopefully this week I will catch up.

    • Powell says:

      I hope you had a great birthday. Cusi Saud to have a margaritas so I hope you did. Or is that for this weekend?
      The People’s Couch was so funny. Love that show.

    • Jan (TexasTart) says:

      Hope you had a great Birthday! Sonja really did look out of sight in that outfit….I thought Carole’s was inappropriate….but she changed mid way through the party!

    • Jan (TexasTart) says:

      Was so funny on The Peoples couch when the two friends with the chihuahua dogs not getting along and they act like it’s nothing.

  44. Powell says:

    I don’t know if anyone will want to watch this but it looks good. It called All About the Benjamins on MTV starting Saturday. The Benjamins are a mom and dad and their adult sons that are autistic. One 23 has aspergers and the other is 20 I think and he’s autistic. The part my local Fox showed was the brothers showing their bedroom, one learning to drive and the brothers riding their bikes together . Their parents were on the New s and said their sons are adults and tell their parents often enough that they’re adults. They look like a sweet family. If I don’t forget I’m going to watch it.

  45. Boo Yah, not only did I get the final answer in Wheel, but I got the Final Jeopardy answer!!! I suck at Wheel but I rock at Jeopardy!!!

  46. iceNfire says:

    Deadliest Cast starts tonight on DSC …it repeats for those watching Fargo. Actually Fargo repeats too

  47. Jan (TexasTart) says:

    LOL! Andy showed the clip of Sonja saying “LuMan” and told LuAnn that the editors cut the footage so if drag queen is said they show her!

    She was a great sport and said back to him “I love drag queens!” While laughing.

  48. Jan (TexasTart) says:

    Ramonacoaster, I enjoyed the blogs! “At least no one grabbed each other and drag the other across the floor by the hair.” LOL!

  49. I still have not seen the snatch and grab…..I am not sure I want to see it….but I really do….but I don’t but I do!!!

  50. NJBev says:

    I am confused about one thing with Sonyas finances.
    Wasn’t that lawsuit with the movie production company
    (the 7 million jugdement that claimed the house)
    actually thrown out recently? I heard the company
    wasn’t actually incorporated at the time they reached the deal
    w/ Sonja and as a result the deal would have been null and void–
    does anyone know what actually happened??

  51. Jan (TexasTart) says:

    I think Andy Cohen’s dog is so cute. He has him on camera towards the end of the show, it’s funny, but distracts the guests a bit much. Yes…the dog has his own twitter….

    • ladebra says:

      IKR? I love Beagles, and I think Wacha has a lots of Beagle in the mix. Also it’s clear Andy really likes him, it’s fun to watch when Wacha just hops in his lap and licks the makeup off lol.

  52. Exit4 says:

    Watching the late version and cracking up at Sonja the performer. They want her show in San Tropez and Berlin? Lol! Maybe to laugh at you in French and German….she’s nuts.

  53. VickiM says:

    Just want to compliment you all on a website that’s not nasty. I’ve never posted before but have read the blogs because I like the shows. There is another lady’s blogs that I also read – but she likes to repeatedly bad mouth people and use negative and foul language about people. I don’t particularly like people who steal other peoples partners either but life is complex and calling people names shows a lack of intelligence. I don’t think this other lady is bad – but I think she is doing it for attention. I won’t be reading her stuff again.

    I like that the people on this site are respectful and seem to do it for fun. So Ladies and Gents thank you for a nice blog and funny and respectful comments.

    I live in Australia so I love to get the goss on the shows earlier – although we now get the rhony on the same day

    • rabblerouser2010R says:

      Hello Vickie,
      Welcome aboard

      Thank you for all the kind words about the posters on this site. This blog is very special to many of us.

    • Orson says:

      Nice to have you here. I hope you don’t get eaten by a drop bear. And I hope that you’ll stick around.

    • I am watching The Real Housewives of Melbourne….are you watching?? Thoughts??

  54. kit9 says:

    Jan (TexasTart), looks like no new podcast from Brandi again this week. Been frequently checking the PC site and her Twitter feed and seems she’s still in NY on CA and they have the same ol rerun up on Podcast 1.

  55. ok, trying to post this for the FOURTH time, for some reason it kept telling me my comment couldn’t be posted.

    Chismosa!! I hope you got my email the other day! I emailed you back! xoxo. #teamkenya

  56. Jan (TexasTart) says:

    Here’s the link again for the new version of smiley faces and symbols in WordPress:

  57. Jan (TexasTart) says:

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