Real Housewives of Atlanta – review of what’s happened this week – and let’s chat!

Last week on Real Housewives of Atlanta we learned that Phaedra was trying her best to keep away from Apollo Nida.  She refused to be alone with him, using her mama and children as a full-body shield.  This week we can expect this dance to continue, as Apollo tracks her down at their son’s dental appointment to try for another confrontation.  Despite Phaedra trying to avoid him, Apollo was getting a lot of screen time as cameras followed him for his sentencing.  This week Kenya will also film with Apollo to finish up the “did they or didn’t they cheat” story arc that has been playing out since Kenya joined the show.

Thankfully for Phaedra Apollo entered prison and is serving out his eight year term.  She’s told tabloids that he’s “blowing up her phone” but she won’t take any collect calls because every penny must be saved for THE CHILDREN.  That’s cold – to not let him talk to her kids, but she probably is worried that he’ll try to incriminate her in his legal mess if he does get her on the phone.

NeNe was the WWHL guest after the show and took that opportunity to slam her former BFF Cynthia Bailey.  She used her blog to throw shade at her castmates, blogging:

“As far as Phaedra and Apollo, it’s always sad to see a family end no matter who’s right or wrong. I’m glad I can say I was a rock for Phaedra during this time and never judged her. This definitely should be an eye opener for her as well, because it’s always the ones you never thought would support you that do and the ones you thought would be there during rough times that always seem to magically disappear. “

Phaedra didn’t really blog for Bravo, but the posted a Q & A with Phaedra in lieu of a blog. Asked about how hard it was to deal with the legal situation, she wrote:

“Words cannot express the turmoil this situation has caused our family, and I can’t even begin to articulate how hard it has been. When you face a situation like this, you can choose to either break down or stay strong; I chose to stay strong because I have two young children that need a parent to give them stability and keep the ship sailing. I’ve been criticized for not being at Apollo’s hearing, but the truth is I had been there for him in so many ways for such a long time. By the time all of this went down, it was apparent the marriage was over and my focus needed to be exclusively on the wellbeing of our children. I don’t think there’s a parent out there who wouldn’t agree.”

I’m not sure if I agree or don’t agree – I’ve never been in that situation, and he was a felon when she married him – so this wasn’t exactly a surprise.  But that said, he treated her like crap.

Asked if any of her cast mates had reached out, she conspicuously left out Kandi’s name – and responded:

“NeNe and Porsha have been extremely supportive of me and very attentive throughout this entire ordeal, and for that I am extremely grateful. Unfortunately, some of the others decided to use my personal crisis as an opportunity to further their own interests and talk to the media to get press for themselves. The lack of compassion was, at times, shocking.”

Kandi also blogged in the Q & A style (perhaps this is a new thing to get them to blog??)  Asked about how hard it was to be friends with both Phaedra and Apollo during this mess, she replied:

“It’s very hard. Phaedra is always assuming I’m siding with Apollo, which isn’t true. Todd and Apollo became pretty good friends, so I would say he takes Apollo’s side a lot. Todd and I have serious debates over their issues. Sometimes I get to the point where I’m like, “Listen Todd, we shouldn’t be arguing about their problems.” It’s crazy really… At the end of the day Phaedra is my girl. I’m always going to be honest with her about what I think. Sometimes we have a difference of opinion, but it’s not because I’m taking anyone’s side against her. Never that! It always sucks when two people that you really like are going through something as crazy as this. I’ve always heard that when a married couple goes through a divorce the people close to them end up going through the divorce with them. I never understood what that meant before, but I do now.”

Kenya did a regular blog, and lamented about Porsha’s lack of remorse or apology over their altercation at the reunion.  Andy Cohen also talked about it quite a bit in his book.  At the time he felt Porsha was to blame and sent her home.  Many people disagreed with him, and he couldn’t figure out how people would see things so differently.  I tend to agree with Kenya – a physical assault is not an acceptable response to  a verbal assault.  But Kenya really does push buttons looking for a response.

Kenya also issued a challenge to NeNe to live up to her end of the deal that they both donate to a charity of Kenya’s choice.

“During the last reunion, NeNe promised to make a $20,000 charitable donation to the charity of my choice “when I wrote the check.” I chose the Detroit Public Schools Foundation because education leads to success. Detroit is bankrupt and the inequities that befall poor students should not exist. One significant way to instill confidence, self-esteem, self-worth, and your future is through a solid educational foundation. I was poor but attended the best magnet schools in Detroit because I was smart. The city of Detroit is bankrupt, therefore, the schools are not being properly funded. Despite our differences, NeNe made a promise to donate $20,000 if I made my donation. Certified funds from my personal bank account were donated to honor this great cause and the DPSF has received my $20,000. I beg NeNe to be a woman of her word and send her donation.”

NeNe has chosen to ignore Kenya.

And finally Cynthia.  She says she did reach out to Phaedra via text.  She’s close – but not besties – with Kenya – but they are fine with each other.  She and NeNe didn’t communicate between the reunion and filming the next season.  Mostly she talked about Peter.

It looks like it’s going to be a great season.  Let’s Chat!



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243 Responses to Real Housewives of Atlanta – review of what’s happened this week – and let’s chat!

  1. Powell says:

    Good evening, in my Alfred Hitchcock voice. 🙂 I hope you’ve had a great Sunday.

  2. Powell says:

    I don’t think anyone ever believed Kenya and Apollo had an affair but questioned whether they saw each other in LA. I didn’t know who was telling the truth when Apollo said it but Kenya kinda made me think it occurred because of what she said at her 1st reunion making it sound like something did happen. She basically perpetuated Apollo’s lie. Apollo was a snake for putting the lie in motion but Kenya didn’t help herself by batting her lashes, giggling, flirting and pushing him in the pool in Anguilla. So Apollo was totally wrong but frankly I don’t feel a bit sorry for Kenya.

    • Veena (NMD) says:

      I think she was playing with him, but since he was really a cheater it hit a real chord with Phaedra. But turns out she was probably cheating too – so can I pick none of the above if I have to feel sorry for anyone.

    • not THAT Jill says:

      Kenya was totally ok with Phaedra thinking something went on when she saw it was hurting Phaedra-once it started hurting Kenya then she wanted the truth to be out-Kenya plays shady games-I don’t hate her for-HOTlanta is a shady franchise-always has been always will be!

      • Powell says:

        Right. She didn’t mind hurting Phadera. Peter, etc saying they now owe Kenya an apology but like you say she made Phadera think it was true. IDK if she deserves an apology.

  3. Has anyone heard from T-Rex????

  4. Veena (NMD) says:

    LaineyLainey – you and your Jim love is cracking me up.

    • LaineyLainey says:

      It’s more like Jim Non Hate. I don’t see how he is so much worse than the other BOZOS on RHONJ.

      • Veena (NMD) says:

        I don’t like how he treats people on twitter – he’s another Richie Wakile.

        • LaineyLainey says:

          I follow him on twitter and have never seen him be vile to the general public. He is mean to Bobby and Dina, however, especially when they tweet about him. I’ve seen where Jim actually retweets tweets that are critical of him. Sorry, but I don’t see RichWakile-type behavior from him on twitter toward the general public. Didn’t rich make fun of people, make fun of their kids, their appearances, etc, name calling. Jim does that? Maybe he does, but I have really never seen that. I will be on the lookout for that. I thought I had been looking for that, because I don’t like meanies.

          • Rebecca wishes dragons would appear and roast every Housewife who says or does something stupid. says:

            He’s always telling women they have low IQs. He’s a lowlife scum who tried to pawn off fake cancer drugs.

            • LaineyLainey says:

              Always? All women? Or Dina and the twins, etc? Seriously I have not seen him tweeting that kinda stuff to female tweeps in general. I will stop following him if he starts bullying the viewers. I can’t with that.

              • Rebecca wishes dragons would appear and roast every Housewife who says or does something stupid. says:

                This is just from yesterday, and his timeline is full of hate. I won’t go back to find you more of his crap.

                And anyone who replied that didn’t kiss his ass got a smart-ass remark.

                • Laineylainey says:

                  Thanks Reebs, but Andy is a smart ass to anyone who doesn’t kiss his as well. I don’t see this as being targeted toward women. He is making a joke using one of his lines from the show(I.e. Shameless self promotion). I will go look at his timeline again. I have in the past and I don’t find him to be Richie-like. But when attacked he does sometimes react.

                  There is so much hate and so many insults directed AT him, I really wonder if jamber will return. Jill had a lot of haters. She thought the negative attention was good for the show, and she got axed. The same may happen to Jim.

        • TexasTart says:

          He’s no Dick Wakile from what I’ve seen.

    • Powell says:

      Make him short w/red hair, w/two sons that he can’t let become men, and a daughter who he can’t wait to marry off, he’s Caroline. One of the reasons I stopped watching.

  5. Veena (NMD) says:

    I guess I don’t blame Apollo for being so angry. Or Phaedra. I get that Apollo brought this on himself, but it’s hard.

  6. not THAT Jill says:

    Gravatar change for my girl Felicia…girl bye!!

  7. Veena (NMD) says:

    Cynthia Sexy Peter. One of these things doesn’t belong.

  8. Veena (NMD) says:

    Todd should stay out of Kandi’s business with Mama Joyce, just as Joyce should stay out of his business.

  9. Powell says:

    Sad. Mmm Mmm Mmmm. 😔 I love Kandi but Joyce is her kryptonite. Why oh why is she buying her another house? At the reunion Joyce said she had her own money. Stocks, investments, diamonds. Kandi just can’t pull the blinders off to see Joyce is all about her money and making sure she gets more than Todd.

  10. Veena (NMD) says:

    Does anyone have one of those IRobot vacuum cleaners? The automatic ones? Do they work?

    • NJBev says:

      holy crap!!
      I have been asking every one I know that!!

    • ladebra says:

      I have one and love it. I’ve had it for about 6 mo. I have hardwood floors, and almost everything is off the floor (it can go under) so it works great for me. I push the button and just let it go until it comes back to the docking station. It get all the dust bunnies and the cat fur, and the dirt. I don’t think its the newest one .. Maybe the 600. Anyway, with my set up it works great.

    • Rebecca wishes dragons would appear and roast every Housewife who says or does something stupid. says:

      I had one and got rid of it. My labs shed too much for it. The collection bin is less than a cup. It also got stuck under furniture a lot.

      Though if you have a cat, I see on YouTube that they love to ride them around.

    • LaineyLainey says:

      My daughters bf got her one. She loves it!

  11. Veena (NMD) says:

    Awkward conversation ….

  12. not THAT Jill says:

    What’s this all about?? Secrets revealed??? I’m in!!

  13. not THAT Jill says:

    I so do not enjoy Kenya and her made up songs-she’s silly and annoying to me.

  14. not THAT Jill says:

    Joyce is the most miserable woman on TV…Kandi is way to giving to such a nasty person!! She’s never happy!!!

  15. LaineyLainey says:

    Brandon made me laugh “beige on beige” crime

  16. Veena (NMD) says:

    Is this going to be another Mama Joyce season?

  17. NJBev says:

    First of all, what a great blog- thank you so much!

    2nd of all, can someone tell me what’s wrong with
    Kandi’s Mother???
    3d of all—– and I am ashamed to say this-
    because I genuinely adore her- what is up with
    Kandi?? she will never have “true love” when she
    “allows” her Mother to be such a D^ck—–
    no respect for Kandi 😦
    No Respect For Kandi ….. 😦

    • Veena (NMD) says:

      Kandi should kept her mom off TV. Parents can be difficult and dysfunctional, and those of us that have that type of parent try to cope as best we can, but it’s so much more difficult when other people see their behavior,

    • Powell says:

      I don’t get it. I’m perplexed. 😏

      • Orson says:

        Mama Joyce isn’t capable of allowing her adult daughter be an adult. So she uses nagging and guilt to control Kandi. Todd is a competitor for Kandi’s affection, so MJ hates him. It’s not ALL greed on Joyce’s part, although part of it is.

  18. not THAT Jill says:

    Porsha trying to stay in the mix

  19. NJBev says:

    I hope that Sheri Shepard has the balls to call Kenya out and doesn’t kiss her a$$.
    I just saw the commercial and Kenya is sitting next to Andy- total sell out, Andy—
    PROFOUNDLY disappointed on you Andy.

  20. chismosa says:

    Where did he go !!????? 💓💓💓💓
    My post ….

  21. ItzAngeeDuh says:

    I lost a lot of respect for Kandi during her wedding special. The whole pre nup issue rubbed me the wrong way. Also, why does Kandi laugh when Mama Joyce is saying vile, unprovoked things about Todd & his family, but she is so defensive and ready to attack when someone says something to her about Mama Joyce, even in defense? Their relationship is truly disfunctional.

  22. Powell says:

    HA!! He’s apologizing about LA, etc because he’s going to jail & that’s not him but he can lie, steal and cheat on Phadera and their kids? 😏 So ALL this freakin time he hasn’t even told Phadera he lied?!?! DAMN!!

  23. chismosa says:

    Oh lord Mama Joyce is trending on Twitter

    Kandi: 📣📣📣📢📢📢📢

    • Powell says:

      Yes and it’s not too nice. Also someone “said if it wasn’t for Apollo’s lie what would Kenya’s storyline be?” WORD!! 👍

      • chismosa says:

        But see Powell everyone’s always (not here, in general) saying “without —— what is —–‘s storyline?”

        Well what was dummy ratchet’s “story” without her husband?
        Kenya was more of an established person than dummy was. Dummy just had her family legacy. And that was thrown out the window due to the train comment 🚋🙇……
        What has dummy done for me lately? Kenya is (before joining) actually what all the older HWs like to call themselves, a “businesswoman”!! Love her or hate her.

        everyone would be “no storyline” without someone. On every show!

        Kenya is polarizing I get it.

        Andy is DEAD wrong when he calls jim marcheesy from NJ “polarizing” because to be polarizing there have to be FANS

        Love her or hate her, kenya has fans.
        Nene has become polarizing IMO

        Bethenny is polarizing.
        Jimbo, apart from LAINEY, his bestie 🙊, has WHAT fans???

        I just hate when andy tries to sound smart and gets it wrong. Or wait, I love it. 😉

        ((Sorry went on a tangent there ….lol))

  24. Powell says:

    Apollo acts like he’s doing the one of the steps in the 12 step program. Apologizing to those he’s wronged. Although on tv he’s not yet apologized to Phadera.

  25. chismosa says:

    Veena — im the words of one of my old fave Wilson Phillips songs – for the love of eye candy👀🍭🍬,” RELEASE ME “….. (From moderation)


  26. Amber...Real Wife says:

    Hello All!

    Don’t have any sympathy for Kenya. NONE AT ALL!! A man can lie but if you’re a slut from the nineties who keeps slutting up on any man… it’s like the boy that called WOLF. She’s the skank that’s called a WHORE. Stop acting easy and you won’t get called easy.

    • NJBev says:

      she won’t be happy until Phaedre apologizes???
      puh leeze. Get over yourself- you have no virtue.

      • Amber...Real Wife says:

        YA Bev like that’s going to happen! As disrespectful as she’s been hounding Apollo and harassing Phaedra she expects an apology? Her thirst for a story line gave credence to everything Apollo alleged. Phaedra needs to give her a slap in the face with a white glove and challenge her to a duel at dawn! LOL

      • Powell says:

        Well if she hangs her hat on an apology from Phadera, she’s never going to be happy. She acted like she slept w/Apollo and that’s even worse. She had no respect for Phadera’s marriage. I don’t care how Apollo acted. Kenya was worse. And she wonders why she’s been engaged 50 Xs but hasn’t walked down the aisle.

    • Powell says:

      Amber I was laughing out loud at”if you’re a slut from the 90’s”. HA!! That’s just what Porsha called her. Hahaha. 😆😆😆

    • Laineylainey says:

      But Apollo lied! I think it’s sad how so many people (especially women) were willing to believe him without question. I wish women wd support each other more. I guess Kenya’s attitude makes that impossible for so many women. I never believed Apollo. Well not 100%. I believed there was a chance he was lying. I thought he was trying to discredit Kenya to make his wife more popular w the other cast members and the viewers. I don’t know if she wants sympathy, but I think she dies feel vindicated. About this one thing. With good reason.

      • not THAT Jill says:

        She would have gotten more support from women if she would have just said Apollo was lying and didn’t try to act like it might be true-with the texting and so forth-and she did flirt with him like crazy when she first came on the show-her words were “Apollos kinda fine”. It’s hard to support a woman who makes it obvious she’s looking at another woman’s husband because she thinks it’s cute-that’s my problem with Kenya. She wanted Phaedra to believe something was going on with her and Apollo-that’s not right and now she’s playing the victim and that’s my worst!

        • LaineyLainey says:

          She brought up his texting to expose him, but it backfired. Yes, I know her personality lends itself to all the hate she gets. You’re suggesting she might have gotten more support if she had behaved with more decorum. But that’s not who she is. She enjoyed seeing Phaedra’s insecurity, and that IS MEAN. Having Apollo admit that he lied about her is huge, IMO. It doesn’t make Kenya sympathetic or popular, but she has been vindicated. Kandi seemed almost disappointed to learn that it wasn’t true. Apollo lied!!! He’s a convicted thief! Thieves lie, Kandi!

  27. NJBev says:

    Kenya has ugly boobs

  28. NJBev says:

    Sheri just answered my question
    love you Sheri!!!

  29. Veena (NMD) says:

    Dang you Bravo – I’m watching WWHL instead of Walking Dead and not happy.

  30. Veena (NMD) says:

    I do love Sherri. No her look – too tight, brar strap showing – but her wit.

  31. not THAT Jill says:

    Kenya is not winning me over on WWHL-I like her less. She’s rude and full of herself but says the same about NeNe-she’s no different.

  32. chismosa says:

    Is there a poll???? I don’t see one on Twitter ?

  33. NJBev says:

    however, I think tmro’s show would be great if she could talk about her experience
    on WWHL.
    I don’t really like Kendra. ah I mean Kenya.
    actually, I like Kendra.

  34. not THAT Jill says:

    When Apollo said “Kenya you didn’t see me in LA”-it sounded like a question and there was some weird cutting/editing going on-I think something went on with them-I don’t care what either one says. Kenya read a few of the texts to Kandi and she was so innocent in the whole thing-Kenya is shady as hell!!!

  35. Veena (NMD) says:

    WWHL secrets is really funny

  36. Veena (NMD) says:

    Jill on that poll – running around trying to figure out if anyone was rigging the poll – hilarious.

  37. Veena (NMD) says:

    I had completely forgotten the Danielle fake-lesbian performance on WWHL. Too bad Andy hates Simon, I’d have loved to see the red pants performance again – that was the WORST

  38. Powell says:

    Question peeps. Last week Phadera said when Apollo told her he was going to work she believed him. What “work” did she think he was going to? 😏

    • boston02127 says:

      I don’t think for a minute that Phadera is as innocent as she would like us to believe.

      • chismosa says:

        I agree —-

        And POWELL I don’t know what work that was either.

        Wasn’t he doing Repo work the first season he was on ?

        The one where Phakedra was pregnant with the miracle 5 month old full term baby?

  39. chismosa says:

    Veena I had asked you about a/ Naples and 2/ Andy’s sexcapades in the book
    On a previous post
    – maybe two blogs ago?

    I’ll repost.

  40. not THAT Jill says:

    The breaking of the bottles on Andy’s head was one of my fave WWHL EVER!!!

  41. Veena (NMD) says:

    “I have more twitter followers than ALL the NY housewives together – past and present.”
    Andy – “Do you buy twitter followers?”

  42. Veena (NMD) says:

    Minute by minute ratings. Interesting …..

  43. Exit4 says:

    I actually did hear about Bin Laden from Andy! Lol. I knew something was going on….but he confirmed it before I found out from social media!

  44. not THAT Jill says:

    That was a funny little show…friggen Zarin!!!

  45. VV™ says:

    I’m calling BS on that entire Dentist scene. Release forms had to be signed. Ayden saying “Oh, boy” was a voice over. I didn’t see his mouth moving.

  46. Veena (NMD) says:

    Found your question Chis

    “two questions:
    —-is Naples like scary that NO one wants to go due to the violence and mafia situation?
    How funny it was all fine for NJ to go there !

    — as for andy (incapable of love) and his sex life – is it like, GRAPHIC 😳? I’m just wondering ?
    I know he basically coached mark ruffalo for his part in The Normal Heart so I picture andy as him in that way. But I’m just wondering just HOWWWW in depth his sex life is gotten into.”

    • Exit4 says:

      Other then talking about different dates-he’s not graphic.

    • Veena (NMD) says:

      Naples – Okay to visit in the day in the public areas – but no northern Italian person would visit there. Lots of cruises stop. Watch your purse but you aren’t in danger of being murdered. Don’t leave a rental car there – it’ll more than likely be stripped.

      Andy and his love life – not graphic – in fact he says he’s mortified when Anderson (drunk) admits during a WWHL that Andy is a “top” – but he does mention when he gets laid, and he does make a few tasteless jokes.

      • Exit4 says:

        It’s not like Brandis book where we learn more then we EVER needed to know! Lol!

      • chismosa says:

        Veeeeeena, thanks so much

        I just wondered how Naples is now. So many italian Americans i know claim “nabolidan” ancestry and I wonder if it really is as bad as the mafia movie I saw from italy like 5 years ago, it was Oscar nominated. Forget the name.

        Thanks! ⭐

        • Orson says:

          I thought it was “Neapolitan”, like the ice cream.

          • chismosa says:

            Every italian American I know who claims Naples ancestry pronounces it that way – I don’t get it.

            I don’t understand mozzarella / prosciutto or other italian words pronounced without the vowel at the end. (Pro—zhooooote, etc)
            And these are not Sicilian dialects.

            Italian is on my list to learn so one day I’ll get to the bottom of it. 💥

            • My Grandmother was from Naples Italy…. – napoletano …..said with an accent and holding your fingers together.. she always said we could be called WOPS but never a DAGO… wops…with out papers… she said Dagos were back stabbing SICILIANS never to be trusted…lol
              and Italians with blond hair and blue eyes were wicked little angels.offspring off german soldiers who raped and pillaged Italy….

              • chismosa says:

                Well that’s just a whole thing of the south not liking the north –/ the southerners are more dark skinned – but they can hate the Sicilians even more! (Like the famous movie scene in True Romance)
                Funny enough the Sicilian-Americans I know (who insist on being called that, not italians- are very fair!)

                North/ south, etc
                Many countries have that issue. Because these are countries with history. Not young toddler countries like the US.

                It’s like my german aunt getting heat because she was from the east. The west didn’t like the easterners.

                We have the same $hit in peru and in greece – I don’t “do” northern – nor any meters near Albania – that’s why I AIN’T watching no euro show with an albanian woman on it. It’s enough i have the stupid mob wives with a non- mob connected albanian lunatic on it.

                The Germans occupied my dad’s town and were super super respectful. However- I know the Germans and the Italians and Russians had their own issues going with regards to the leaders during that time – so apples and oranges !

                Love euro history. 🌏

              • Rebecca wishes dragons would appear and roast every Housewife who says or does something stupid. says:

                We called them Napolese, like Calabrese, or Caprese.

                It’s not a north vs south thing. Italians are competitive with each other throught the states/regions.

                And if you ever used the word “dego” in our house, you’d get the wooden spoon!

  47. mrs peabody says:

    I think both Apollo and Kenya were wrong in what they tried to do to each other and both owe each other an apology and both of them owe Phadera an apology.

  48. Amber...Real Wife says:

    Hey Lainey… LLCoolLainey,

    Re: Kenya’s Vindication

    Apollo lied on Kenya. I believed the claims not because he said it but because she acted in a manner that made it seem plausible. After Phaedra decided NOT to give her back end points and chose another production co., Kenya decided to come after Phaedra with a vengeance. She badmouthed her, stole her concept and started openly flirting with Phaedra’s ogling POS husband. Kenya decided to hurt her financially and emotionally/ She enjoyed making herself the femme fatale that Apollo couldn’t resist and no matter how many times she was told to stay away from him she made it her business to have conversations with him for camera time and annoy Phaedra.

    She’s not owed an apology because she’ll NEVER admit to any wrongdoing on her part. She wants Phaedra to apologize because she believed Apollo when he said Kenya offered fellatio but didn’t we see her ask Phaedra if she’d give her husband a hall pass for a threesome? Didn’t we also see her constantly seeking out numerous ‘Private Conversations’ w Apollo? She also wants an apology from Porsha wi/o admitting that she was ALSO wrong to use a megaphone or flail a scepter 1 foot away from her face. When will she say I was wrong as well. NEVER. Likewise i think that Phaedra and Porsha should never apologize as well.

    • Powell says:

      Amber. My other soul mate. 🙂

    • Laineylainey says:

      Hi Amber! I consider you my soulmate on this board too. I looooove yr sense of humor and the ways that you express your opinions. I don’t think I ever said Kenya was owed an apology. Did I? Anything is possible. So we’re in agreement there. Phaedra does not owe her anything for all the things u listed. Kenta did behave badly. So we agree there. But it doesn’t change the fact that Apollo was lying the whole time and most everyone believed him. She was telling the truth, he was not. Listing all her flaws and there are many, does not change that fact. He was lying, she was telling the truth. About this. LOL!

      What porsha did got her arrested. She broke the law. Listing all the ways Kenya was wrong does not change that fact. Porsha got arrested for what she did. Kenya did not get arrested for what she did. Does that mean that I don’t agree that Kenya, knowing how unintelligent porsha was, set out to provoke her, to send her over the edge? I agree, she set out to break the woman. Was it right? No, not at all.., was it against the law, no. At least I don’t think so!!!!! Porsha shd apologize if she is sorry. But she isn’t sorry. So I don’t think she shd apologize either. It will be interesting to see how it plays out in the courts. Maybe she will have no consequences, maybe she will, I don’t pretend to know. I always get it wrong when I try to guess how a judge will rule or sentence.

      • Amber...Real Wife says:

        Lainey I see you as my LynnFamSoulSister and I agree that Porsha broke the law. We all know if you do the crime you do the time. (Ode to Baretta) . However, one thing you don’t do is poke a bear or guess how someone will react to your actions. In a perfect world, biblical at that, people would turn the other cheek. In a perfect world people would also watch their words and not set out to taunt others or test their limits.

        Apollo is a lying liar who lies and so is Kenya. He made a horrible sexual claim that was readily believed because she has a track record of lying and hounding married men. What does that say about Kenya that MANY believed his story? If he’d have made that allegation against any other cast mate everyone would have doubted him immediately. It was believable because Kenya was relentless in her pursuit of a story line that included Apollo and Phaedra. The love triangle that she intimated in Season 4 reunion was much juicier than the TowTruckDriverForHireFiasco that all wanted exposed. She nursed the love triangle from infant to college student and then was shocked when Apollo, a thief, liar and opportunist, took liberties and started manipulating the story as well?!


        Finally, even though it is now proven that she is ‘innocent’ of offering fellatio in California, she is still guilty of being a perinneal bitch to a pregnant married woman.




        • LaineyLainey says:

          I got nuttin honey. I’ve got nothing new to say in response, except #LOVEU2AMBER and I love your nod to Baretta and Dana Carvey’s President George HW Bush and my favorite gospel song “His eye is on the Sparrow”. All things that I love.

  49. boston02127 says:

    Yolanda just tweeted this~~~~~~

    @YolandaHFoster: ❤️Good morning from this lonely hospital window in Soul Korea #MyLymeJourney

    I wonder why she’s alone? Where’s hubby? Kids?

    • VV™ says:

      Bella and Gigi in NY. Anwar probably has school so he’s in the U.S. I thought she went with David. Let me check.

      • VV™ says:

        Yes, she tweeted a couple of days ago a pic of tickets to Korea, and used hashtag “mylymejourney”. Gigi just tweeted she’s on her way to Milan.

        • thedesigndiva2 says:

          I posted on f/b that my gut tells me yoyo is searching for a dr to treat her for something she doesn’t have… gee.. celebrate your anni a few days ago then fly to Korea.and where’s her KING ….something off about this whole thing…. sure it will be exposed sooner or later… .

    • mrs peabody says:

      I’m sure her bestie has dropped everything she is doing in Austria and is at this moment flying to be by her side.

    • chismosa says:

      Mexico and then Korea …..????

      Girl ………

      Check with Holland? Check with any super celeb who’s had this – where did they go????

  50. VV™ says:

    Today is/was Brandi’s birthday. Unlike previous years, not a single tweet wishing her happy birthday was sent from any of her castmates.

  51. I Need A Life! says:

    Last year I was talking to a woman from India who told me that she had never stepped into her married daughter’s house. A mother never steps into the house to avoid any criticism about how the daughter decorates or runs it. I thought it was strange until I watched Mama Joyce.

    • boston02127 says:

      I think Kandi’s family is just weird. My mother in law can stop by our apartment anytime, without calling, just pop in! Doesn’t bother me. If my mother were alive that’s how I’d want it, I’m not going to change how I feel because it’s his mother.

      • mrs peabody says:

        I agree. I blame Kandi for most of it. She needs boundaries with her mom. She is married now and should not let her mother treat her husband like that. Take away her money until she starts behaving after all that seems to be her weak spot.

        • chismosa says:

          But who set those boundary issues to begin with? Her

          M A M A

          If mama don’t want no therapy, take the $$$$ away.
          She always claims she worked so much, she can work again!

    • chismosa says:

      That’s super interesting …..

      Everyone I know (generation x-ers) is very into the whole “you gain a new son and never lose a daughter” saying ….these are 4/5th generation irish and italians.
      I think I’d have my mother living with me! Lol
      Maybe it’s cultural. Then again we are happily dysfunctional and not super super messy like kandi and her MamaDrama😁.

      Very interesting about the Indian culture.
      Remember the Indian father on the Newlyweds show 😳…

  52. chismosa says:

    I’m on the beyonce pandora station — not always – rarely do I listen to this station, and Selena comes on ?????
    Whu????? Not Gomez. Tex Mex, JLo one.

    Just so strange

  53. mrs peabody says:

    omg, not the best time to take a drink of pop when andy decides to read a viewer question to Shaq. Didn’t expect that question. Soda is all over everything.

  54. VV™ says:

    The energist was asked if Dina was still a client.

  55. chismosa says:

    VV—- is jason pandoras hubby??

    I need to know this for Tuesday 🙉😁

  56. chismosa says:

    Re: the post about JZ and the birthday party

    WHY is JZ celebrating her bday so soon? She’s a SAGITTARIUS —-


    Ughhhh 😑

  57. chismosa says:

    How funny on WWH kenya said she was polarizing and i said that earlier ^^^^^!!!!!
    We are in each other’s heads ! (Both with real hair)

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